When Your Entitlement Can’t Save You.

And I don't know if she's getting ready to announce to the public that she knows for a fact that Charlie was getting ready to leave Erica because maybe Charlie told Candace, "I'm leaving my wife. I found out something and I can't do this anymore." Is that what Candace is about to reveal in her Erica Kirk series? We have to talk about the whole Candace Owens, Erica Kirk situation because we had kind of benched it for a minute and we ventured off and we went back to talking about Blake Lively and Justin Maldon and that whole thing. But in that minute that we kind of benched everything, all hell has broken loose. So, so we need to talk about this. And the reason why I'm bringing it up is because things have reached a boiling point in this war between these two women. And it just has to be said that this could have been avoided. And I want to make this a life lesson for all of us watching this. But anyway, if this is the kind of topic that you find interesting, please subscribe to my channel. Please excuse my voice. I'm getting over a cold and my allergies, which attacked me at the same time. Thank you so much for watching and let's continue with the video. So, Candace and Erica, I've been getting some comments from you guys saying, "You were so spot on. You knew this was going to happen. We knew this was going to happen. My audience and I from the moment I took on this topic from the very beginning when things had just happened. And it seemed as if Erica and Candice that they had no problem. They had no beef. I was reading below the surface and I could tell something is about to boil up to the surface between these two women because as I pointed out in my it wasn't the first video. In the first video I was kind of defending Erica because there were people saying that she was fake that they didn't like how she was behaving that something must be wrong with her that she's probably happy that Charlie died. And I was charitable to Erica. I try to look at it from her point of view. You know what? She's a pageant girl and pageant girls are very extra. It's so much drama. They have been trained to be very expressive. The judges are always watching. You have to always be on. And so I use that as an as a reason why maybe she's acting strange. I don't think she's happy that her husband died. I did say that it was weird. Yes, she is acting weird. and we get a funny feeling watching her the way she's been acting. But what if she's just maybe that's just who she is? And I criticize the fact that people were trying to get her to act a certain way to to behave a certain way because it's not becoming of a of a widow to be acting so strange. And in my original assessment of Erica, I concluded that it was kind of a mistake to put her in the driver's seat of this major organization that her husband left behind. And that maybe the best thing for her would have been to just take some time away from the spotlight and go away with her children, maybe somewhere in nature, maybe carry some people who could help her with the kids and have some counselors around. you know, she certainly has the money to kind of go away and heal from this tragedy and help her children as well. And that maybe her taking on the reigns was her way of feeling like she was back in control and this was her process, but that eventually, I think I said that maybe in a month, I was expecting her to put out a statement saying, "I thought I could do it, but I'm just going to take some time away with my children. such and such will replace me as the CEO of Turning Point USA. That's what I was predicting was going to happen, that she was just going to crash and burn. Her feelings were eventually going to catch up to her and she was going to have to confront this. But it's been what, 6 months, and she hasn't crashed and burned. This seems to be the real Erica. This is not the Erica that is in shock, is trying to process her emotions by by go going. This seems to be who she was the whole time. And it's very clear to us that something is off. Something is very, very wrong there. And we aren't the only ones who noticed this. Candace Owens who like myself gave Erica a lot of grace in the beginning. She was being very charitable towards Erica. She spoke very kindly of her. She said that she watched her give her speech and that it made her very emotional. She was in her corner. But eventually, like we predicted, Candice slowly started turning. And the reason why I had predicted that things were going to go sour between these two women is that I couldn't wrap my brain around the fact that Candace Owens was best friends with Charlie Kirk, but she doesn't seem to be that close to Erica and the children. If I had a male best friend, me and his wife would have to be best friends as well. I mean, there is no question about this. There is no way that that would even be appropriate. As if I were a wife, I wouldn't want my husband to have a female best friend and we kind of keep each other at arms length. That's not normal. And I pointed that out and I knew that eventually this was going to happen, that it was going to unravel and that it was going to bubble to the surface, that this was going to be some tension that was going to remain in the background that we would have to speculate and and trying to figure out, are they friends, aren't they friends? Like I said, there's going to be public statements and this is not going to end well. This is not going to be friendly. I just didn't expect it to go this wrong. I really did not expect Candice Owens to go balls to the walls, scorch earth, weaponry out. I mean, this is a major major feud going on between these two women. And now it is about to hit the boiling point because during this week, Candace Owens has put her show on hiatus because she's getting ready to release a series on Erica Kirk. Not on Turning Point USA, the organization that her best friend left behind that Candice has some serious serious problems with and has been criticizing the entire leadership on. Not it's not about them. It's not about the unaliving of her best friend. Oh no, this series is on Erica Kirk. I think she's going to put it behind a payw wall just like she did her Breijit series. I have been enjoying the drama from Candice for free because it's free on YouTube, but the idea of having to put money in Candace's pocket really bothers me. But there's no way I'm gonna miss out on that series. I'm gonna have to pay. I'm just gonna have to pay to watch because I really need to know how dark this is going to get. And like I said at the beginning of this video, this could have been avoided if Erica had had some self-awareness, some foresight. And this is why I feel that there's so much in common between Erica and Blake because these are two women who I believe have kind of coasted by through life on the strength of their looks. They're very traditionally conventionally attractive women. They have all the hallmarks of a woman who in this western society is considered the epitome of beauty. And too often we find that when you can coast on your looks, you don't take the time to really self-reflect and develop character and the qualities that you're going to need to navigate this life successfully, separate and apart from your looks only. The issue with Erica is that a lot of things are coming out about her, about her past, about the way she carried herself. The last show that Candace did before going on hiatus was explosive. It was regarding a very disturbing series of tweets and text messages that Erica exchanged with a 15year-old girl when Erica was 25. Erica was already an adult with a fully developed frontal lobe. And these text messages and tweets were disturbing. They were very disturbing. And the fact that Erica knew that this was out there even as she was in the process of uniting her life with Charlie Kirk, the most famous conservative young man of his generation. The fact that she didn't decide, you know what, me and this man are about to unite our lives. This is going to put me in the spotlight that I've always wanted to be in. That's another thing that we need to talk about. I wonder what made Erica so appealing to a man like Charlie Kirk because Charlie was somebody who preached very conservative Christian values about the things that he looked for in a wife. And we're not just talking about what he was looking for in terms of morality in whatever woman he was going to settle with, but he had very traditional views of gender roles. That a woman should be home with her children, that she should be modest and just very humble in her demeanor. And when I was doing my research on Erica when I put out the first video, I realized that she was very different from what some of these guys preach about what the perfect woman who would make the perfect wife would be required to be. She was in her early 30s when she married Charlie. She was somebody who was already very entrepreneurial. She had had different businesses in her past. She was somebody that was seeking the spotlight. She had appeared in a movie from what I understand. She also had appeared in Summerhouse, which is a reality show that I love so much. It's on Bravo. And she had done a cameo on that, showing herself drinking alcohol and dating in New York City, even though she's gone on to say that she didn't date anybody when she was living in New York, which is another one of the many lies that she's been caught doing. And she was a model. And there have been some people who have found some of the photos that she has taken that were kind of questionable that they're not exactly what you would think that the wife of a conservative leader would look like or would try to present herself as. And I want young ladies to to just beep game. Stop listening to these guys with all the things that they tell you that, "Oh, she better be like this and she better be like that and she better be a virgin and she she better be modest and she better want to just be home with the kids and she better not have any ambition." And don't listen to these guys because the kind of girls that they pursue are the complete opposite of what they preach. The kind of women that they end up marrying are completely different from what they preach. As a young woman, focus on being fulfilled, on being happy, on being successful in whatever you feel success means. If success means being very uh proficient in cooking and cleaning and sewing and doing things, pursue that. If you think that being successful means having lots of friends and traveling the world and and exploring life, then do that. If you believe that success means getting your education and then getting a job, starting a business, then pursue that because the most attractive people are those who are living their highest purpose, whatever that is. Don't try to make yourself small to appeal to men who will lie to you and tell you that that's what they want. because at the end of the day, they're going to go for the woman that they feel is more vibrant and happy and successful in life, whatever that means. Okay, that was just a little aside. But back to Erica and how she had all this stuff out there. I believe that Erica, and this is my opinion, like Blake Lively, she probably was living on cloud9. She's dating this prominent man who's famous among his crowd. May not be the most famous man in the world, but he's famous among his crowd. He's a successful businessman who managed to parlay his political activism into a multi-million dollar company. All eyes on her. The spotlight that she's been searching for all these years is finally on her. And I believe that she thought it's all going to work out just like it's always worked out for me. Everything I've ever wanted, I've gotten. People like me. People appreciate me. And when her husband passed away and she took over his company, she really thought that that was going to translate into people will like me. People will love me anyway. I'm going to go out there and be this boss babe even though I preach traditional values. Who cares? They'll accept me. I'll be the greatest CEO this company has ever had because everybody loves me. I am the weeping widow. Everybody wants to hear what I have to say. When I speak, everybody hushes and that's how it's going to be. Everything is going to be fine. So, she didn't really do any due diligence. She didn't go back into her past and be like, "Okay, I've made some missteps. I've said some things that weren't appropriate. let me let me kind of clean the internet off of all of this and just fall into the role that is expected of me because she thought I'm too big to fail. I'm too cute to be criticized and I'm too high up to ever be taken down. Well, Erica girl, I think your days in the spotlight are numbered. I don't know what Candace is cooking up in the background, getting ready to expose, but I have a feeling that there are things that she's been holding back on that she hasn't wanted to to expose about you yet. Because at the end of the day, Candice Owens is a very savvy businesswoman. She is going to milk this thing all the way into millions in the bank. She's going to come up with an explosive series. She's going to put it behind a payw wall. I'm going to pay to watch it like millions of people will. And she's not going to just give us some watered down information. She's holding the big guns. And one of the things that I believe she's going to expose, and she has been hinting on this lately, is that I believe that she's going to expose that Charlie was getting ready to leave Erica. She has been hinting at this. She has been constantly talking about the fact that because Erica, when recounting the last days of Charlie, she talked about the night before he went to Utah. He spent the night in their daughter's bedroom because their daughter came into their bed and you know how little kids are, they're kicking around and everything and he needed to get a good night rest to go to his event the following day. So Erica said to him, "Oh honey, why don't you go into her room and spend the night so you can be cozy and comfortable and you can have a good night's sleep so you can go to your event the next day and me and the baby will sleep here in the bed." Candace keeps hammering that point, but she stops. She stops short. Another thing that I find constantly talking about is this anecdote that on the day that Charlie died, Erica uh flew in from wherever it is she was. I think she was in Arizona and she flew into Utah and she stayed on the tarmac on her private jet waiting for I believe it was Andrew Colbat. He's he's one of the big people in the company. I'll put it put it here on the screen. and that he told Candace when it had just happened when him and Candace and the rest of the TPUSA people were still on good terms. He told Candice that his plane landed in the same airport where Erica was waiting for him and that when they saw each other, they collapsed into each other's arms and cried. Now, that's not something that I would find worthy of continually repeating because Erica was Charlie's wife and Andrew was his friend. So, they were close. So, of course, the fact that Charlie just died and that they this is the first time they're seeing since this horrible thing happened and they run into each other's arms. There's nothing really strange about that, but Candice keeps bringing that up over and over and over. It's like she's planting a seed. I don't know if the revelation is that Erica and this guy had something. They were getting too close and Charlie found out and he was getting ready to leave and that's why they weren't sleeping in the same bed towards the end. And that's why when he left to go to Utah, he didn't really wake Erica up. That's another thing she says that he came into the room, put his wedding band on before he left. And that's another thing that Candace keeps saying. Why was his wedding band off? And I don't know about people, but I'm not somebody who can sleep with jewelry. For me, before I get to sleep, but before I sleep, I usually take a shower. I'm not one of those people that shower with their jewelry on. So, I take it off, I take a shower, I lotion myself, and I go to sleep with no jewelry on. But Candace keeps bringing that up. It's like she's saying, "I want you to pay attention to these little details because I'm about to tie all these loose ends together." And I don't know if she's getting ready to announce to the public that she knows for a fact that Charlie was getting ready to leave Erica because maybe Charlie told Candice, "I'm leaving my wife. I found out something and I can't do this anymore." Is that what Candace is about to reveal in her Erica Kirk series? And is this what she believes was the catalyst of what happened to Charlie? I don't know. I don't know. All I know is that Erica could have really milked her widowhood into getting the entire public on her side, but she was sloppy. She let these things be out in the public. She allowed herself to be as weird as she wanted to be. Smiling and laughing, wearing tight leather pants and, you know, kind of giving that nice hug to JD Vance and and all these things, all these weird things happening and just seeming like she is loving the spotlight. No selfawareness. No self-awareness. Just like Blake Lively, just going through life doing whatever she wants, expecting people to go along with it. And in the case of Blake, when the public criticizes her, she assumes, "Oh, it it can't be them. It's bots. It's bots that are leaving all these nasty comments and telling me that I'm acting out of touch and that I'm not." No, people love me. It's bots. It's a coordinated smear campaign. That's what it is. It could never be me. I'm too big to fail. I'm too cute to be criticized and I'm too high up to ever be taken down. The lesson of the day is self-awareness doesn't just mean I'm aware of how I feel. Self-awareness also involves I'm aware of how I am coming across. And if how I am coming across is not serving me, it's not helping me, it's not going to help me get or achieve the goals that I have for myself, then I need to course correct. I need to check myself. I need to humble myself and understand that just because I want to do it this way doesn't mean that it's going to fly with the public. Self-reflection, self-awareness, and self-correction are one of the greatest skills you will ever develop as a human being. Okay, but let me know what you think in the comments below. Did you really think it was going to be this bad between Candace and Erica? I knew it was going to be bad. I just didn't know it was going to crash and burn the way it did. Uh, so please leave a comment. Let me know. Let me know if you watch the original videos that I put out. If you haven't watched them, go watch them. I'm going to link them below. Thank you so much for watching. 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Erika Kirk and Blake Lively made the same mistake. Change my mind. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Here are my previous videos on this topic: Is Erika Kirk OK? https://youtu.be/1myNbgOAI1M?si=STq4CXliKo8K_zu9 Candace Vs. Erika? https://youtu.be/Prhrqo-JMW4?si=cQez6iRSmjbeM860 Is Candace Telling Us She’s Not Friends With Erika? https://youtu.be/J8Af4YU4I38?si=LIAXW1rw3PwaeNJ3