CRAZY WOMAN goes to NIGERIA to MARRY A MAN who LEFT HER AFTER HE LANDED AMERICA - Angela & Michael

Yes. >> Angela Kadine, repeat that statement. I >> I >> Angela Kadine. >> Angela Kadine. >> Thank you. >> Take you >> listen Michael >> Kendi listen Michael >> to be my lawful husband. >> To be my lawful husband. >> To love and to obey. >> To love and to obey. >> Yes. To love and to obey. >> Obey what? To obey who? to love and over >> forsaken all other men. >> Forsaken all other men >> till death dwells part >> till death. >> Amen. >> YOU HAVE DID NOTHING BUT hurt me. That's all you have done. It's funny to you. >> My worst fear came true. We was home four days, I believe. 4 days, 3 days, he was gone. He was gone. I have read in a couple different places that Michael had claimed that Angela was locking him in the house and also that she made the mistake of saying to the police while they were there that she must have forgotten to lock the house when she left. Therefore, Michael got away. Let's be honest from the start. This was never some fairy tale that took a wrong turn because Angela Deim and Michael Ilasomi were headed for this ending from day one. long before the wedding pictures, the visa dramas or the endless shouting matches that people started treating like background music on 90day Fiance. And what people kept calling love was really just stamina. One person constantly bending, apologizing, waiting, proving themselves over and over, and the other holding the upper hand, setting the rules, moving the goalpost, and reminding everyone who had the power. Don't try to swindle me because I like cake. It ain't happening. >> Thank you. >> What are you doing here, Michael? >> What are you doing here? I come to get away from me. >> I know. I know. >> That's not going to work this time. >> Please. >> No, Michael. That's not going to work. I'm embarrassed that you come up here. I'm already upset. >> I'm sorry. >> No, you're not. Sorry. There's your cake, Michael. That doesn't work this time. >> People love to blame the age gap or the distance or the cultural differences, but none of that was the core problem. The core problem was control. Last night, I gave Michael an ultimatum. Take the Instagram down or leave it up and my ass is going home. There's no choice. you take it down because you love me or you keep it up because you love yourself. >> And because it made for shocking clips and viral moments, it kept getting brushed off as entertainment. Season after season, the relationship played out in front of millions until dysfunction just felt like something that was normal. Arguments stopped being uncomfortable and started being expected. Public humiliation became a personal treat. And marriage and the promise of America weren't symbols of commitment. They were literally leveraged. Love stops being mutual and turned into something that Michael had to earn, lose, and beg for again. Take your ass to the apartment. I want I want I want to go. I want to be away from you. There's not going to be a marriage. >> Tell a woman. Tell me what going on in America. And you two take me to apartment. I'm sick of Why? Why did you act like that? >> Don't me no more. >> This wasn't about one argument that went too far or one final betrayal that ruined everything. This was years of red flags being ignored, laughed at, edited down, and packaged as reality TV drama. A relationship breaking down in real time while people watched, commented, made jokes, and waited for the next explosion. So when it finally fell apart, it didn't feel surprising. It felt inevitable. Not a twist, just proof of what had been obvious the whole time. That being said, let me introduce myself. Hi guys, my name is Joel and on this channel I speak about what I want to speak about whether trendy or not. So that being said, kindly like, share, subscribe if you care and let's get straight into this video. So yeah, anyways, we're speaking about the downfall of Michael and Angela. And let's start with Angela. Let's speak about a Georgia grandma with big personality. Angela De showed up as a 50something grandma from Hazel Host in Georgia working as a host pies nursing assistant and already very used to being seen. This wasn't her first time chasing a camera because years before this 90day fiance, she actually popped up on shows like Mari and she was clearly comfortable with me, confrontation, and attention. She was loud in a way that filled every room. She was blunt, she was emotional, and she was very quick to snap. >> Scotty and her mother are back with more DNA drama. >> Here we go again. I have to prove her one more time. >> They're back for new tech. The Scotty's mother, Angie, claims Terry is not baby Scotty's father. >> In fact, Angie, her mother, says that Scotty's ex-boyfriend Chris is the real father. >> Take a look at Angie's shocking accusation. >> But she was also deeply wrapped up in her identity as mean more to her grandkids. Family was always her shield. And by the time she started to look for love abroad, she had grown daughters, Skylar and Scotty, and she had plenty of very public family issues already hanging in the air. None of that was hidden or new. It was part of the story from the start. When Angela joined 90Day Fiance, there was no slow introduction. She came in hot. The yelling, blowups, the need to control every conversation that wasn't even editing magic. And that was just Angela being Angela. At first, so many people laughed it off because she was funny. She was outrageous. She was seen as someone that was very unpredictable. But it did not take long for that energy to just stop feeling playful and just start feeling heavy. What made her stand out also set the tone for everything that followed. The chaos wasn't something that happened around her. It came with her. That being said, let's speak about a Nigerian man with American dreams. Michael Elles somi was close to 30 and he was living in Lagos Nigeria when he crossed path with Angela. He had a job back home at one point describing himself as an online marketer working with car dealers but it was very obvious that he wanted more than what his current life could offer him. Michael was very open about his admiration for the American culture. He talked about the US like it was the ultimate goal and the place where success really started. He even idolized Donald Trump, seeing him as proof that confidence and hustle could turn into power and money, which in case he did not know, in case you're watching me, Michael, Donald Trump literally came from money because what the [ __ ] >> Do you know what the science bro? Am I >> Am I saying? >> Oh my god, you look good in this. No, I want you to try it on. >> Wait, fix it. Luna Trump is my business. Oh, I love Michael. >> In Michael's mind, America wasn't just a country. It was a future. >> Donald Trump make America great. I I I love the the words. I know. I love it. Oh my goodness. >> You love it or what? It affects his stick. >> That ambition immediately raised red flags for Angela's friends. From the outside, it looks suspicious. younger man, foreign country, older woman, talk of visas and opportunity. People rightly so assumed that his feelings had strings attached to it and that Angela might just be a pathway to a green card and a new life. But Michael insisted that his feelings were real. He talked about Angela with genuine affection and seemed willing to push through everything stacked against them. And what are these things stacked against them? First of all, the massive age gap. It was a lot. It was literally more than two decades apart. The cultural differences, the long distance, the public scrutiny. He believed that love could cover all of it, even when it meant shrinking himself to just make that relationship work. So, now that we know somewhat of the origin of these people, let's talk about how they met. So, this will talk about a chance Facebook message and how they met. This didn't start on a dating app or through some matchmaking site. It really was random. Back in 2017, Angela opened Facebook and saw a good morning message from Michael sitting in her inbox. She didn't know him. There was no setup. She just answered. And from there, things moved fast. They started talking. They kept talking. Then they barely stopped. They were engaged in phone calls, messages, checking in constantly. And Angela just later said that they were just speaking like 20 to 30 times a day. Before they ever met in person, they were already emotionally locked in. People around her were side eyeing the whole thing. A younger man from Nigeria popping up online set off all the usual alarms because again, Nigeria has a bad reputation for scamming even though there are more Netflix documentary of people from other countries scamming than in Nigeria. But anyways, Angela did not care about all of that. She felt seen. She felt wanted. And to her, that level of attention just meant that he had to be real. >> Michael and I made it online. People think he's scamming me because I'm 52, he's 30. Eventually, we fell in love. >> Michael played his part well and he was very confident. He was always present. He always was always saying the right thing. He made time for her in a way that felt intentional, and it didn't take long before they were calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend. They were fully committed to something that existed almost entirely through a screen. So now let's speak about the first trip to Nigeria and we're going to speak about the love and culture clash. >> Going to pick up my baby Angela. I'm so nervous cuz this is my very first time of meeting a white woman. I mean dating a white woman all the way from the States. >> After about 8 months of talking online, Angela decided to stop wondering and just go. She booked a flight to Nigeria to meet Michael in person. Even though her family kept warning her that she could be getting played, she ignored all of it and went anyway. And that first meeting just showed up on 90 days fiance before the 90 days. Yeah. And it was very messy from the start. Michael met her with flowers and excitement. Clearly happy that she was finally dead. >> When I first see Michael, I'm going to be a nervous. I tell Michael, I say, "You know that first kiss, I'll know if you love me or not." And he's like, "How you going to kill him?" I said, "I'm 50 years old. I will know." >> When you first see Angela, what do you think you'll do? >> Might kiss her or hug her or I mean, it's it's going to come naturally, you know? I really can't see what I'm going to do. >> If Angela looks older or less attractive than I thought, I will be kind of disappointed. >> Okay. When I first saw Michael, I couldn't hold myself back, you know? I just had to run to him cuz that's my sex in Nigerian, baby. >> Her stature is kind of bigger than I expected. And she looks older than the pictures. But I mean, I'm happy now. I'm overwhelmed. You're a big chunky baby. >> There were sweet moments early on and there were moments where they looked genuinely happy to be in the same space. Angela even came with a plan. She wanted to be the one to propose because she was fully convinced that this was real love and this was not just online fantasy. This trip will show me if Michael and me will make it for real. Like if I don't feel it, if I feel he's not loving me the way I think he's loving me is off. I've just landed in Nigeria to meet my boyfriend Michael for the first time. I've had love before, but when you're appreciated in love, it's different. I think Michael appreciates me. It's a different feeling. But reality hits fast because Angela was in her 50s. She was loud from the airport. She was already complaining of how hot Nigeria is. Of course, Nigeria is hot. Why do you think I've not been home for like 8 years? But you don't get me complaining. She kept talking about how Nigeria is hot. Um, she was very loud. She was very blunt and she was used to being in charge and Micah was in his early 30s and he was raised in a very completely different culture and constantly trying to keep her calm. >> Angela is different from what I was expecting. She's kind of loud. I will try and give her a sign just to bring her voice down a little if she's like too dramatic. Small things turn into big blowups almost immediately. And one of the first cracks showed when Michael called Angela Eld. Yo, I don't know if you guys noticed at the beginning of this section, I was trying so hard not to laugh because I just know everything that's coming. Everything that I wrote, like even like watching the video, they're just like playing in my head as I'm just talking to you guys. So like literally, it's just so hilarious. So basically, elder is a respected term in Nigerian culture. So he called her elder. When he called her elder, obviously Angela did not hear respect. She heard insult because from there the tension never really left. I'm not your elder. I'm not your damn el Michael. You just pissed me off. Did you really say that? Did you really say that? Michael, >> you think it's funny, Michael? How about this? I'm done already. You cuz I'm your elder. You respect what I said. We're done, >> bastard. But again, she's an elder. She's like she's what they call auntie. Like she's 50s something years. And additionally to this whole thing that she felt insulted because the person that she loves literally calling her an elder trust issues showed up early too because Angela kept a close eye on Michael's phone and his social media and she also kept a close eye on any woman that she thought was too close for comfort. >> Hello. >> Hi. Hi. Hello. Hello. I thought it was a guy we was talking to. Matter >> of fact, thank y'all for coming. I'm done. Thank you. I appreciate y'all for coming. Thank you. Thank you very much. That's a wrap, Mike. Did you just freak out? Things fully exploded at Michael's birthday party when Angela became convinced that he had lied to her about where he had been and who he had seen. In a moment that still gets brought up years later, she lost it and smashed his birthday cake into her face. And Michael later said that the moment humiliated him and it was very hard for him to argue with that. >> Bye. See y'all tomorrow. >> I'm going to Nigeria in two days. >> Michael, I've been working my butt off to pay this trip to Nigeria and the K1 visa. Hey Tommy. Hey. You okay? Oh, he's a dog [ __ ] just relationship problems. You know, Michael and I are already having trust issues and today he did something that pissed me off. You know, today is Michael's birthday and um he was supposed to wait on me to get over there and celebrate. It was his idea for us to celebrate some coming to Nigeria where the day of his birthday that he promised not to go out. He ain't answering his phone all day at work. I've been calling him. The only time he don't answer his phone, Tommy, is when he's told me a lie. In other words, he's went out. And I know this. I know it. We've decided to wait a couple weeks to celebrate his birthday. And then what does he do? He lied to me again and then did not answer his phone for 6 hours. How do you know he went out already? >> He sent me a voice message. >> Yes, I I didn't lie about that. Yes, I went out. My phone, I couldn't because it was noisy here. >> Now, you see where I'm coming from? You can't walk outside and say, "Baby, it's noisy here. I didn't go out. I'll explain when I get home." >> It's not about not celebrating his damn birthday. It's that again he can't deliver what he says. Of course, if he want to go out on his birthday, all he do is say, "Baby, I changed my mind. I want to go." But instead, he tells me what I want to hear and then he does what he wants. Is it me? >> Am I the damn or what? >> Michael probably went somewhere and really got loose. I mean, he's young. He's 31 years old. And it's his birthday. I've been living in Nigeria. I'm going out on my birthday. Of course I'm going. I would like to party in Nigeria right now. But you know, I wouldn't want to say that. She's going through something right now. >> That scene sets the tone for everything that followed. Angela's temper wasn't just loud. It crossed into physical and verbal aggression. And it didn't stop there. Still, Michael stayed. He apologized. He reassured her. He did whatever he could to calm things down. And by the end of that trip, they were still together. When Angela returned to Nigeria again the following year, their relationship somehow pushed forward and Michael proposed. Angela said yes and they locked in plans to get married. The road there was there was constant yelling, jealousy, breakups that honestly never really stuck. But no matter how bad it got, they kept pulling each other back in. Angela was determined to see through and Michael just kept choosing endurance over walking away. Even then, the warning signs there were everywhere. They just weren't treated like warning signs yet. Now, let's speak about long-distance struggles and the K1 visa saga. Once they got engaged, reality really set in because Angela went back to Georgia and started the process of trying to bring Michael to the US on a K1 fiance visa and it was the one that gives you 90 days to get married once you land. In theory, it sounded simple, but in real life, it dragged on forever. So many people watched the whole thing play out across 90 days fiance before the 90 days and later 90 days fiance happily ever after with a question mark and with interviews after interviews paperwork delays and constant stress the distance didn't help. If anything it just made everything worse. Trust was always the biggest problem. Angela's insecurity turned into rules and Michael was pushed to delete his social media and explain where he was at all times and basically stay on a short leash to keep the peace. Most of the time he went along with it. He apologized a lot. He reassured her constantly. He tried to make himself smaller so that the relationship wouldn't explode. Can you guys imagine what it means to be in such relationship? That did not of course stop the accusations and Angela repeatedly suspected Michael of talking to other women or cheating and he denied most of it though he did admit early on that he had enjoyed attention from another woman. Something that Angela never truly let go of. >> I can't believe this. >> What's going on right now? >> I was going to wait to see Michael tomorrow surprise him. I told him to take out his Instagram, give him another chance, do it on his own, and he responded with laughing emojis saying, "Laugh out loud." What's so funny about someone's pain? You know how that makes me feel that he doesn't care about me? Like, who does something like this to their wife? I'll tell you who does. Someone that's not in it for love. A scammer. You >> ready? Thank you. Michael's getting ready to get his trouble because little does he know I'm right down the road. What I got to get my cigarettes first. Let's go. >> Your ID. >> Should I have my marriage certificate, too? >> Yeah, you should have your marriage certificate. Don't get is in the Nigerian jail. >> I came to Nigeria to find out if Michael loves me or is he using me to get to America? Let's go. You want to do this? So, we're going to do this. >> I need answers before his visa application is approved, and I don't have time to waste. So, I'm bringing this marriage certificate with me, which my understanding lets me, being his wife, own all his possessions that he owns as well. And if I have to show proof that I am his wife and I have the right to anything that he owns, I can do it legally. Even when nothing was happening, the suspicion alone was just enough to cause blow up. Still, neither of them walked away. Then came the guts punch. Michael's K1 visa was denied by the US embassy in Nigeria. Just like that, Angela's vision of a big Georgia wedding with her family just disappeared. So many reports suggested that the age gap played a role in the denial, which only added to the frustration. They were left with an uncomfortable choice. give up on building a life together in America or change the plan entirely. Michael's family, who had already been pushing for marriage, encouraged Angela to rethink her refusal to marry in Nigeria. At first, she resisted, but the fear of losing Michael just worn out. So, they pivoted. If America wouldn't approve the Fiance visa, they would get married in Nigeria and apply for a spousal visa instead. That decision set everything in motion again with Angela preparing to return to Nigeria. This time not as a visitor but as a bride. Now let's talk about their wedding in Nigeria. I do under the African son. Let's not pretend that this wedding happened in some calm romantic bubble because it absolutely didn't. >> Yes. >> Angela Kadine. Repeat that statement. Hi. >> Hi. >> Angela Kaden. >> Angela Kadine. >> Thank you. >> Thank you. Listen me, Michael. >> Andy, listen to me, Michael. >> To be my lawful husband. >> To be my lawful husband. >> To love and to obey. >> To love and to obey. >> What? >> Yes. To love and to obey. >> Obey what? B who? >> She loving other >> forsaking all other men. >> Forsaken all other men. >> Till death do us part. >> To death. >> Amen. By the time Angela flew back to Nigeria to get married, the relationship was already hanging by a thread. The visa denial had left Angela angry, embarrassed, and resentful, and that energy followed her straight onto Nigerian soil. From the moment she arrived, the fighting picked right back up. Angela questioned everything that Michael did, where he went, who he spoke to, what he said when she wasn't around. She went through his phone, accused him of lying, and treated every misunderstanding like proof of betrayal. Michael spent most of that trip just apologizing and trying to smooth things over, even when he wasn't even sure what he was apologizing for anymore. The biggest issue again was trust and control. Angela still believed that Michael wanted children, something that she couldn't give him, and she took that fear out on him constantly. She accused him of pressuring her. She accused his family of pushing him to leave her and accused everyone around him of having an agenda. At one point, she openly clashed with Michael's relatives who were concerned about his future and their cultural expectations. >> I want us to be one family, no, live together and all that. >> My K1 is my only opportunity for my family to see the wedding cuz I can't afford to fly them all over here. You're saying >> well it's understandable at the same time my wanted to be with you >> as soon as >> as soon as possible. Somebody that have been waiting for the past 2 years now and you are not getting younger >> and we want him to start his own family. >> I want to plead on the beard of the family. Maybe you can think about it and then consider him and have the wedding the marriage here in Nigeria. Don't it ever stop. Michael, now you got your family talking about the spousal visa. This is really Michael and I's business and not theirs. Somebody get me the hell out of here right now. >> With what you said now, you said you you still want to try the K1 visa again, but but if he's been denied, my care should just have to move on. >> What do you mean move on? >> Move on in you should just start his own just his own family. Nobody. Yeah. >> Is that what you want? >> If it is, then conversation over. What should have been family discussions just turned into shouting matches. There were literally blowups over money, communications, and respect. And again, I'm sure where I'm from because I'm Nigerian in case you guys do not know. I'm Nigerian. And again, like children, like when once again, every wondering, oh, when are I going to have a child? Personally, I do not want to be pregnant. I've known that since I was 14. I didn't want to be pregnant and nothing is changing my mind. The thing my family is very uncomfortable with and I really do not give a [ __ ] because it's my body, my choice. Okay. But again, I like it's common in Nigeria for people to be like, "Oh my god, when I going to have a child, blah, blah, blah." But Angela crashed out on these people. And Angela didn't just like how Michael spoke to her in front of other people. Michael didn't like being publicly embarrassed or yelled at, and Angela did not like the way Michael spoke to her. The tension was thick enough that so many people questioned whether the wedding would even happen. Multiple times Angela threatened to call it off altogether. Even the leadup to the ceremony was so chaotic. Angela went dress shopping while arguing with Michael. She complained about Nigerians customs. She made it clear that this wedding was happening on her own terms or not at all. And Michael once again backed down because he wanted to choose peace over pride. So when they finally stood there on January 27, 2020, it wasn't a fairy tale ending. It was two people that was exhausted from fighting who decided to push through anyway. And the ceremony itself was calm. It was almost strangely so considering everything that came before it. And Michael smiled. Angela cried. TLC cameras just captured a moment that looked softer than the reality around it. And then reality came crashing back almost immediately because just one day after the wedding, Angela found out that her mother had passed away back in Georgia and she flew home in grief and she left Michael behind yet again. Obviously, this was supposed to be like a fresh start. But because Angela's mom died, there was never really a chance for there to be like a fresh start. The marriage began under pressure, resentment, and unfinished conflict. And from that point on, bringing Michael to the United States wasn't just about love. It had become something that had to be proven that all of this chaos had been I don't know how to say. It became proving no it became about proving that all of this chaos had been worth something. Hopefully that makes sense. So now let's speak about their married life apart surgery, jealousy, and constant conflict. Once they were legally married, the plan shifted to a spousal visa. On paper, that should have brought them closer to the finish line. In reality, it just meant more waiting. Immigration delays dragged on. Then COVID hit and suddenly Angela and Michael, they were married, but they were still stuck on the opposite sides of the world. Their first year as husband and wife were spent apart. They were glued together by video calls and arguments. And camera followed it all on 90 days fiance happily ever after. These are divorce papers. And it breaks my heart that I had to go this far. >> Oh god. I never knew she took it serious until this very moment. I think this going to be the end of the road for both of us. >> I know we got a lot further to go. This doesn't stop here. Your problem's not healed. But I am your wife. and I'm going to vacuum and all the help you need and I'm going to all of this up and I truly love my husband. >> Thank you, baby. >> Thank you. >> I can't get them refiled. I'm ripping these up. >> I had no idea she had the paper with her this whole time. I feel so short like my my heart was beeping so fast. I come in here thinking that Michael had to do all the work, but I need to work on not getting as angry as I do with my husband and working on our relationship at this couple's retreat has saved us from divorce. I married you for good or bad. I'm going to stay committed to that. I just want you to work on how you treated me >> and it was so hard to watch. One issue never went away. That was the topic of kids because Michael wanted a biological child and his family expected that. Angela tried to explore other options, even talking about using an egg from her daughter Skyla or looking into surrogacy. >> You're not pregnant. >> It's funny you said that. Pregnant. Michael wants a baby. And you know, I probably can't give him a baby. >> I'm not. >> You know what? >> Don't ask me to have y'all baby. >> But the reality was harsh. Her age and health made pregnancy unrealistic. And deep down, everybody knows it. Instead of pouring money into fertility treatment, Angela made a difficult choice. She decided to focus on herself. In 2021, she had weight loss surgery followed by cosmetic procedures like breast reduction. and she later had a faceelift. Michael hated the idea. He said that he loved her as she was and was worried about the risk. He was also angry that the savings were going towards surgery instead of trying for a baby. But Michael, are you okay in the head? You literally married a grandma, someone that has grandchildren, someone that is in her 50s. I'm sure she's literally like approaching menopause or like she's already like menopausal or like approaching menopause. How on earth do you even expect her to carry a child? Like men sometimes they make me go cuckoo crazy cuz I'm like men just think that women are like vessels to be carrying people like carrying pregnancy. How do you expect someone even someone like late 30s or 40s is medically considered like risk even though it happens. We're expecting someone in her 50s to carry a child. Sometimes men do not cease to amaze me because what the actual [ __ ] But anyways, I'm glad that Angela did not budge because what are you saying? She went ahead. She dropped over 100 lb and she came out the other side feeling like a new be. That confidence shift just changed everything and Angela started going out more, dressing differently, enjoying the attention that came with her transformation and Michael was still stuck in Nigeria. Watched it all from a distance and spiraled. Even though I'm happy about the changes that I'm making in my life, Michael's still not on board. You know, Michael's not as upset as he was when he found out on the tell, but I know he's still upset that he cannot change my mind about this surgery. But hell, he already knew I wasn't going to be a submissive wife. He knew this before he married me. >> Things got especially tense around her relationship with her surgeon called Michael Oang. Angela attended his birthday parties, joked about him, and didn't hide the fact that she liked the attention. Michael was openly jealous and Angela didn't exactly try to calm him down. At times, it felt like she leaned into it just to get a reaction. And for years, Michael had been the quieter one. He apologized first. He backed down. He followed rules just to keep the peace. But Angela started doing whatever she wanted, like getting surgeries, going out, flirting. Michael began to push back in small ways. And that made Angela angrier. Their fights escalated. Video calls turned into screaming matches about loyalty and trust. And if Michael didn't answer right away, Angela assumed the worst. Michael accused her of being controlling and not hearing him at all. And Angela through insult threatened divorce and constantly reminded him that she held the power. I remember watching even like when they had like the whole sit down, she flashed her boobs because he kept complaining the fact that she's always like showing off. She made it clear that she was his ticket to America and she could snatch that away whenever she felt like. At one point, she even said that she could just divorce him and find someone else if he didn't fall in line. That imbalance poisoned everything. And it wasn't just verbal. Angela had a pattern of destroying things when she was angry. She smashed Michael's phone during one argument. On another visit to Nigeria, she went outside in the middle of the night and tried to wreck his car, yanking at his windshield and denting the hood while screaming at him. >> Hello, Michael. looked shaken, embarrassed, and honestly scared of setting her off. Other cast members noticed it too. He was tense around her. He was careful with his words, always bracing for the next explosion. And one of the ugliest moments came in 2022 when Angela flew to Nigeria without warning because Michael had reactivated his Instagram. She was convinced that he was talking to women again. Cameraras caught her shouting his name in the street then attacking his parked car and ripping off part while neighbors watched. Michael was furious, humiliated and done in that moment. Somehow even that ended the same way everything else did. Michael apologized. He deleted the account and Angela promised to trust him and backed off her own online flirtations. So in order while she was flirting with other people, but she was so angry when Michael reactivated his Instagram, the blowups kept happening. The apologies kept resetting the clock. Their marriage was not moving forward. It was just looping louder and uglier every single time. Now let's talk about cheating scandal and betrayal. For all the chaos that came before, this is the moment that actually cracked everything open. The cheating scandals that played out during 90 days fiance happily ever after in the season 7 in 2022 wasn't just another argument. It was the one that Angela said that she could never forgive. For years, Angela had accused Michael of flirting and sneaking around online or talking to other women. Most of the time, it sounded paranoid. Michael denied it over and over, and so many people were used to Angela just exploding without proof. This time was different because late in 2022, a mutual friend sent Angela screenshot of Instagram messages and a voice note. And in that recording, Michael was heard telling another woman that he loves this woman. And he was not joking. He was not vague. Literally, he just told her was like, "I love you." >> I was over there and he was in my bed when he did that when I go downstairs. Michael, was the woman that you left the message for an American? >> It was clear as day. The clip was played on the show and there was no spinning this one around. Angela, when she heard it, she lost it. On camera, she broke down in a way that so many people hadn't really seen before. She was angry. She was hurt. She was shaking. She was sobbing. She screamed at Michael that she had protected him for 4 years and she had defended him and she had fought everyone for him and was this how he was going to pay her back. She said flat out that you cannot cheat on someone and claimed that you love them at the same time which is [ __ ] true. What made it worse was the timing because Angela said that Michael had sent that voice note while she was literally in the same house as him in Nigeria sleeping upstairs just trusting him while he was downstairs telling another woman that he loved her. Whether it turned physical or not didn't even matter to her. The betrayal was already complete. Michael couldn't deny it. He admitted the online affair, brushing the other woman off as someone random that he had met on social media. He apologized again and again at the tell all and he said that he took responsibility and he insisted that he never physically cheated. He kept repeating that he loved his wife and didn't want anyone to come between them. But you know what? It did not land. Angela was so devastated. The same woman who had spent years yelling was now crying saying that she never thought that she would actually be cheated on by Michael. Other cast members were visibly shocked, too. Ironically, this was the one time that Angela's paranoia was rooted in truth, and the social media fear that she had obsessed over for years just turned out to be justified, at least this once. Afterwards, Angela said that she was done. She talked openly, talked openly about divorce. She said that her heart was broken and that she didn't deserve what he did. And for the first time, he really felt like this was the final call. Still people had seen this pattern before. You know there will be blowups, there will be tears, there will be promises, there will be reconciliation. So even then the question just hung in the air. Was this really the end or just another chapter in a relationship that refused to die quietly? That being said, let's speak about the final downfall. After everything that blew up at the tell all, Angela didn't rush to file for divorce. And that's the part that surprised me because behind the scenes, immigration was finally moving. Nearly 3 years after they got married, Michael's spousal visa was approved. And this was approved in late 2023. By December, he was in Georgia. He was standing on American soil, finally living with Angela after years of delays, excuses, and distance. >> We're in the USA. USA. >> Are you crying? >> And you better put my the jacket on. Let hold us cuz it's cold out there. >> We're in the USA. Let's see some patriots. And you're now you're a Nigerian American. Turn around. Turn around. Let me see. No dirt on it. Okay. You did good. >> Oh, how's it feel? Sexy baby. Sexy uncle. >> Let's go. We got We're going to get our luggage. Come on. Is this real? >> Let Let me Let me feel it. Oh, it is weird. >> It's getting late. I'm just giving you a quick tour because I'm exhausted. >> I know. >> Is that okay? >> Okay, it's fine. >> Sorry about my room. God. Angie. >> Oh my goodness. >> Do you sell clothes here or what? >> No. Those these are all clean clothes. I just come get to you quickly for the visa. So I just pulling out. I mean the bed. You see it's made all but all these stuffed animals are >> you see. And you see all the stuffed animals over there. I think cuz she was laying here waiting for me to get home today. These are like >> Wow. >> I don't know. I'll straighten this up. This ain't much to straighten up. So, right. I need your help. You job. >> I get you, baby. With time. We'll arrange it all. Don't worry. Oh my god. >> Why everywhere is clothes? >> On paper, this was supposed to be the happy ending. the moment that the whole 90day fiance saga had been building towards and instead it was the beginning of the collapse. Michael didn't even last two months in Angela's house because by February 2024 he was gone. There was literally it was so abrupt like there was like no long separation. There was no long goodbye, no slow separation. Literally he left and he didn't come back. >> My worst fear came true. Uh, we was home 4 days, I believe. 4 days, 3 days, he was gone. He was gone. According to Michael, he ran because he felt unsafe. He later said that he fled an abusive situation and couldn't take it anymore. I have read in a couple different places that Michael had claimed that Angela was locking him in the house and also that she made the mistake of saying to the police while they were there that she must have forgotten to lock the house when she left. Therefore, Michael got away. Could it be true? Can we find anything that could possibly substantiate his claim that she could have been locking him in? This here is a picture of the house when Michael came to the States. This is where she was living. The same house she has been living in and caring for her mother. And we know this because they show her inside. >> How you feeling? And I'm also taking care of my mother. She's got cancer. >> It's important here to notice that she said she was taking care of her mother who has cancer. and you will see this is from 2017. A lock on the door. Now, why would she have a lock on the door caring for her mother with cancer? First thought is, does she have dementia? Because if she has dementia, well, she could be just walking off somewhere. But let's fast forward again to 2020 when she talks about her mother's health. >> Hey, Skyla. Mom. >> What? >> My mom has lost him. >> Hey, I'm not playing. I'm really >> What's she saying? >> She's just having her own reality. >> That's dementia. Skyla, do you understand that cancing? I tried to get her off of her and she kept seeing the kids faster. That's dementia. Start of dementia. >> Dementia. She said the start of dementia. So why have the lock on between 2017 and 2020 if mom wasn't displaying dementia at that point or they're just saying that her medical issues are spanned out for the story line. Regardless, it would be highly, highly inappropriate of her to keep the lock on the door after her mother has passed and to keep the lock on the door in order to capture her husband and make him stay in the home. >> In legal filings, he accused Angela of years of physical and emotional abuse, both behind closed doors and also in public. Anyone who watched the show could immediately point to the scenes of Angela just screaming and insulting him and also destroying his things and putting her hands on him. So when Michael said enough is enough, a lot of people they believed him. Angela meanwhile was furious, blindsided in her version of event. By summer 2024, she went on the offensive and filed for an anolment in Georgia. It was not a divorce, it was an anolment. So that matters. So let me tell you between divorce. Divorce is when you ask the court, okay, I don't want to get married to this person, divorce, but anolment will mean that the marriage never really existed. And Angela's argument was clear. She claimed that Michael tricked her into marrying him just to get legal status in the US. In other words, she rewrote the entire relationship as a long con. She didn't stop there. In court's documents, Angela accused Michael of being part of some larger romance scam operation, claiming that he and other Nigerian men targeted American women for visas and money. Put a pin on that. Put a pin on that. Targeted American women for visas and money. I want you guys to put a pin on that because I'm coming to that later on shortly. So, she painted herself as a victim who had been used from the start. >> No spoiler alert here. I mean, you have to be living under a rock if you don't know that Angela and Michael are splits. But the news that's coming out about Michael, well, is it news? If you look over at Angela's page, she has all kinds of posts. And this one, I don't know what article this is from, but Angela deems breakup with Michael won't greatly impact her as she focuses on her own happiness and freedom post heartbreak. Or does she really? I mean, the next bullet point says that she's determined to prove Michael scammed her. So, that's not really moving past. She's going to focus on proving Michael to be a scammer is really what's going to happen next. But then it says that it's not her star power in reality TV industry is going to she's just going to continue to shine. She's also posting things like this that she's going to have the last laugh. Her daughter is lashing out against that shady Michael. Can somebody please help me understand this one? The biggest TLC scam. Seven years of catfishing. This is not catfishing. Michael is Michael, right? And what's the cartel got to do with it? He was catfishing the cartel. This is all very weird. I have friends of Angela's coming in and making comments about my posts that I'm putting Michael into the special light and I'm not. Let's Let's be clear. Michael may have scammed her. very well could have been the case that he went the long haul to get to the US. What I'm saying is that does not give somebody the license to abuse somebody emotionally, physically, verbally, all of these things that she did. It does not give her a license to treat him that way. I am someone who has been treated the way that Angela treated him. So, I know exactly what it feels like. And if he's willing to go through that in order to make it here, well, that shows a lot about his situation and what he was willing to put up with to meet his end goal. And I don't need to sit here and say, "Well, she deserved it. She deserved it." Because that's that's really not what it boils up to. What it boils up to is karma is a thing. The energy that you put out into the world is the energy you receive back. And right now, Angela is dealing with the repercussions of the energy she put out to Michael. These were big explosive claims, and Michael flatly denied all of it. Angela also alleged that once Michael arrived in the US, he was abusive towards her and even claimed that he had fathered a child with another woman. As of now, there is no proof that Michael has a baby with anyone else. One, and those claims remain very unverifiable. Angela also accused Michael of hitting her, slapping her, grabbing her hard enough to leave marks. That veteran of events has clashed sharply with what we've all seen for years where Angela has consistently been the aggressor on screen. I'm not saying that Michael did not hit her. I do not know, but from we from what we've seen, we've seen how Angela literally abused Michael so many times and nobody did anything. And so we've seen Angela being the aggressor. And hopefully Michael did not raise a hand on her. And we don't know if Michael putting a hand on her. We don't know if it's true or if she's just saying it. Many people believe that Angela's accusations are exaggerated at best or an attempt to flip the narrative entirely just to, you know, throw everything away, just to throw everything off. Um, Michael, he's responded by asking the courts to throw the anulment and proceed with a regular divorce instead. His position was simple. the marriage was real. It just failed. And he denied scamming Angela and he denied abandoning her for no reason and said that he left to protect himself. He even requested PO support and he argued that Angela had reality TV income while he arrived in the US with nothing. It has been reported that Michael has responded to the anulment with no thank you. I will go ahead and contest that and go for you know the divorce. This is no shock at all, but he is also seeking support as well as splitting the assets. Remember the reason Angela filed for anulment. She said her husband just took off and disappeared. And according to this article, Michael's answer is, "No, I ran for my safety." And I have seen the video on Kiki and Kibbitz where Renee was saying there was rumors going around that when he fled for his safety, he had some woods to go running through and wasn't exactly just walking down the corner to Quickie Mart. Now that raises question, what's going to come out that he was fleeing the home for his safety running into the woods? This certainly should be coming out in the case, but there has been some allegations going out there that I'm not going to say here on the Tik Tok. But it's pretty damning allegations. And if it turns out to be true, I would not want to be Angela. >> It's so nice that you have so much fan support. I would imagine, especially now as we're getting off of the news that you and Michael are no more. >> No. >> What can you say? Is there anything you'd like to clear up about that that situation? I can I can say what this um you know he was gone seven months. He never once filed for divorce. Not one time. >> Not one time. I filed for anoment. He found out about it. He did a GoFundMe. He got a pretty good amount. I'm not going to say the number. Pretty good amount to get a lawyer to fight me. Then he filed for divorce. Um, I just say I might be a little cocky if I'm just going to be me. People that know me that watch me, I don't fight battles I don't win. >> Okay. >> So, that was good. >> Mhm. And um I say, "Bring it on. I I'm I'm still standing." >> So, Angela pushed back saying that she hadn't made much money from television recently, likely trying to avoid paying him anything. But Michael though requested for spousal support. I mean do you bro do you? Then another detail dropped that complicated everything. Remember as I told people to put a pin on the money. So basically there were court filings that Angela admitted that Michael had sent her over $200,000 in wire transfers between 2018 and 2023. So, Michael has been sending Angela 200 or over $200,000, which is a lot of money. And obviously, that shocked a lot of people because the public narrative before this had always been that Angela was financially supporting Michael. So if people have been thinking that Angela has been supporting Michael, those numbers suggest that something very different has been happening and their finances were clearly tangled, especially since they even opened a joint account once Michael arrived in the US. Suddenly the question of who was using who didn't look so simple anymore because before people thought that Angela was being used by Michael for financial purposes, but now Michael has sent Angela over 200k. But we know Michael allegedly was using Angela for visa purposes cuz that guy really really loved our Trump. He was even went in our Trump boxes. Bro, stand up. As of 2025, there is no reconciliation in sight. Um the I'm saying as of 2025 cuz I did this in 2025. Um this script is quite old, a bit old. Um the situation has turned into restraining orders, legal filings, and competing accusations. And Angela now claims many of the most disturbing moments viewers saw were exaggerated, were pushed by TLC. And people have seen this as an attempt for her to soften her image after the fact. Michael, what about Michael? He just wants out cuz reported they moved to a new state, possibly Texas, and he's focused on building a life without cameras or without control and without Angela. And I'm very sure maybe he's met someone else. what started as reality TV drama has just ended exactly where it always seemed to be heading because again I don't think anybody thought this was going to be some romantic fairy tale or this was going to be something that would be a form of redemption. This has always been two people that have been fighting from the jump and it ended with two people fighting over who gets to control the final version of the story. Now I have to ask what was Angela thinking? Because honestly I do not know and that's not me judging the question. Yeah, it's just the only answer that makes sense once you actually look at the full picture. Michael was never quiet about wanting to go to America. He talked about it openly. He imagined his future there. He said it out loud on camera again and again. None of it was hidden. So the real question isn't why Michael wanted the US. It's why Angela convinced herself that his dreams wouldn't eventually clash with her need to be in control. If you choose to be with someone who clearly wants a different life, different opportunities, even a different country, you have two options. Number one, you have to accept that reality or you walk away. What you don't do is turn that dream into a bargaining chip. And that's where everything shifted. America stops being something that that they were working towards together and it turned into a reward. It literally turned into a carrot, something that she could just dangle every time Michael disagreed with her or like pushed back or like tried to have a bit or whenever he tried to have like a bit of independence, she saw what he wanted and instead of dealing with it honestly, she used it against him. And then there is the part that people don't like to admit. The show rewarded this behavior. Every screaming match, every outpost, every moment where Angela crossed the line, it literally became content. And there were so many videos that went viral. There were so many memes that has been made. And whenever it came to Angela and Michael, you would see that they had like really really high ratings. And abuse also got brushed off as passion. Jealousy got framed as something that one would call love and this control got dressed up as a concern. And if the roles were reversed, none of it would have been treated as entertaining. It would have been called what it is and it would have been shut down immediately. Reality TV didn't just sit back and feel me. It pushed it forward. Angela wasn't checked. She was enabled not because it was healthy, but because it was loud and unpredictable and profitable. One thing you guys should know is that when it comes to chaos, chaos sells. And when someone keeps getting rewarded for their worst behavior, that behavior doesn't fade. It just gets bigger. By the time everything finally fell apart, years had already been spent pretending that the warning signs weren't just part of the show. That being said, conclusion. The most uncertain part of Angela and Michael's story isn't how it ended. It's how long it was allowed to drag on. Not because people didn't notice the dysfunction, but because the dysfunction was the [ __ ] point. It wasn't failing in secret. It was failing apart in public with applause, contracts, and camera crews just quietly reinforcing the idea that sticking it out meant that you love this person. What lingers after everything isn't curiosity about who was right or who lied more. It's discomfort. discomfort with how easily control can get mistaken for passion and with how often someone's pain turns into a story line instead of a warning sign. With how reality TV blurs the line between showing harm and feeding it, especially when the person causing that harm is framed as entertaining instead of alarming. Angela and Michael were never just another messy couple. They were a case study in what happens when control gets normalized, when accountability keeps getting postponed and when abuse is edited to look like a personality trait. The aftermath raises a harder question than whether the marriage should have happened at all. It asks why people are trained to keep watching instead of asking for it to stop. And maybe that's the real ending. Not cut documents or divorce filings, but the quiet realization that some stories don't need more sessions. They actually do need limits. So guys, that brings us to the end of this video. Thank you guys so much for stopping by. If you stopped by, kindly like, share, subscribe. If you care, leave a brown emoji cuz I'm wearing brown today. Even though this is my cardigan, it's [ __ ] hot. Why do I keep saying it's hot? It's [ __ ] cold in my apartment. Like even today I was like, "Oh my god, it's hot." I'm like, "Why do I keep saying it's hot?" It's literally cold. Like it's cold in my apartment. But guys, it's so cold. Um yeah, thank you guys so much. If you stopped by, thank you so so much. I really do appreciate each and every one of you. Um yeah, kindly like, share, subscribe if you can. And yeah, but guys, thank you guys so so much. I really do love and appreciate each and every one of you. Until next time, bye-bye.

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