when you ALWAYS fall for the SAME KIND of MEN! - Haylee Baylee

the things my ex-boyfriend did and I still stayed. Yes, I'm aware some of these are very foul and I should have seen it coming. But you know, when you're in love, you're you're dumb. Let us begin. After about a year of dating, I asked him what my middle name was and he didn't know. He didn't even have a guest. During the first 6 months that we were dating, he secretly talked to a woman, facetimes, text messages, hangouts, and I knew nothing about it until I saw it all in his phone. Like all good like >> totally fine. Yeah. Yeah. >> I mean like average like >> No. Yeah. >> All the way from like Yeah. But totally fine. Okay. >> No, he was just >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Like two coke can stack on top of each other. Maybe even a third. What do you mean? Haley Bailey just told us the reason why her and her husband got divorced was because his thing was the size of two cocaine. >> If a man has enough time to go into the bathroom, he has enough time to cheat. >> I should have never let him go to the bathroom. So, you know, I guess it's my fault. >> Haley Bailey is one of those people who looks like she has it all together online, but the more you look, the more complicated it gets. on Instagram. She's a glam model, the sports illustrated girl, the beauty influencer, the girl who does silly comedic videos on her page, etc. But behind that, there's been a lot of very public mess. There's also been a small town backstory, someone who had big dreams, a marriage that played out in front of everyone who knew her at the time, and also a divorce that people picked apart and is still talked about till today despite this marriage ending about 4 years ago. And then there is a relationship that had people side eyeing from day one. She did not just wake up famous. She worked her way into it. Modeling gave her a start. But social media is what really pushed her into people's feeds. She posted, she shared, she showed personality. People liked her. They followed her. And suddenly she wasn't just modeling. She was a fullon internet personality. When it comes to putting yourself out there on the internet, strangers feel like they know you and think that they get a say in your life. And that's the part that no one really talks about. Because when your life becomes content, it stops being just yours. Internet [ __ ] respond to every comment you say, every speech you say, every meme you copy. Especially when you say you are just a normal girl living in a 19,000 a month condo. Every live stream moment can turn into a viral clip. every relationship becomes a public debate. The same transparency that helped her grow also open the door for constant judgment. If you actually want to understand her, you have to look past the photos and the videos that she puts online. You have to look at the girl who grew up with big plans, who chased opportunities, who stepped into fame and probably didn't expect it to get this loud. And then you have to look at the choices she made once she was already in the spotlight, especially that relationship that she defended even when people were clearly uncomfortable about it. That's where it gets real. So that being said, let's get straight into this video. But before I get into this video, let me introduce myself. Hi guys, my name is Joel and welcome to my channel. On this channel, I speak about whatever I want to speak about, where it's trendy or not. I do deep dive, social commentary, whatever picks my interest, I speak about it. So, that being said, let's get into this video. But before I go on, I literally woke up and seen that my girl Kelly Scholars posted a video like this, this video last night on YouTube. Please do support her after you've watched this one. Kelly is literally my friend. She's such a sweet soul and I am always rooting for her. That is literally like my Nigerian sister for real. And honestly, I can't wait to like see her in real life when I visit her. like if she comes over to the UK. Like I literally do love Kelly. But anyways, that being said, another thing please y'all. Um I don't know if it's showing like gloomy because my light is no longer working and I'm like literally using natural light and it's literally like 10:36 a.m. and it's still gloomy outside. So I just hope it does not affect the quality of this video. But that being said, I'm get myself the viewfinder. It really looks like I look gloomy, but yo, I need to get new light basically. But now that that is out of the way, let's get straight into this video. Let us start with Haley Bailey's childhood and early life. Haley Khali, who born Haley O'Brien on August 6, 1992, grew up in Minnesota, first in XL Seal, and then in Victoria, which is like a quiet suburb outside Minia Police. She is a middle child with an older sister and a younger brother. Both of her parents are mechanical engineers and that pretty much set the vibe for her entire childhood. When it came to Bailey's family, like literally school was very, very serious. Grades mattered and there wasn't much room for anyone slacking. She described herself as a full-on nerd growing up. She loved science. She loved math. And in her house, anything less than an A meant that you were grounded for 2 weeks, which I think is quite harsh, but to each their own, honestly. So from a young age, she learned how to perform academically. You either did well or you dealt with the consequences. But at the same time, she wasn't just this straight lace science kid. She had a very dramatic side. She was a funny person and as a child, she would film little homemade news segments in her bedroom and then she would call them news USA and she would film it with her sister and her mom. She had no audience at the time. It was just her creating for the sake of it. And also she grew up obsessed with Saturday Night Life and genuinely wanted to be a stand-up comedian. That dream did not last long because her parents shut it down almost immediately. In their minds, comedy was unstable and science was more secure. So she followed the path that made sense to her parents. Hi guys, I'm Haley uh otherwise known as Haley Bailey online, which is actually my dad's nickname for me. A lot of people are like, "Is that your real name? Is that like a stage name?" I'm like, "It was my dad's nickname for me. I grew up in Minnesota. So, I grew up in uh Victoria, Minnesota, which is like a small town in Minnesota, kind of in the suburbs. Um, always kind of loved medicine and the human body. And so, when I was little, I told my parents originally that I wanted to be a stand-up comedian. And they're both engineers. They were like, "That's not going to happen. Never, ever, ever." So, I then was steered to medicine and went to school for medicine for uh biomedical sciences, psych minor in chem. Graduated, was getting ready for med school. And then uh I got married really really young. >> To be honest, her parents are literally giving me Nigerian parent vibe because literally I don't know I've said it before how I said I wanted to be an actress and my parents took me to a room and they were like actress just better go and study something because actress acting doesn't pay literally. So it's giving Nigerian parent vibe. It was kind of like somehow like a cultural shock for me. This is something you expect from like an African parent. So, like seeing hopefully I'm not saying a bad thing, but like seeing a white person like saying, "Oh, no. You want to be a comedian? That's not going to work in this house. You have to literally be a science person." It was like I was like, "Okay, okay." But anyways, socially things were not easy. She went to a small Christian school with about 20 kids per class all the way through her eighth grade. And according to Haley, she was bullied badly. It got to the point where she begged to transfer to a bigger public high school. Her parents eventually agreed, but the move did not magically solve everything. Now, she was the new girl from the weird church school, and the bullying actually followed her. According to Haley, the bullying got so intense that during senior year, the girls in her class literally held a meeting to decide whether she was allowed to ride in the graduation limo. Imagine being 17 and your classmates are voting on whether you get to feel included on your own graduation day. Yes, not to make this about me, but I can literally imagine I was severely bullied too in school. And as painful as it was, she has also said that those experiences actually toughened her up and being picked apart that young just forced her to grow thick skin early. Later, when she stepped into the public eye and strangers started critiquing her online, it wasn't her first time being judged in a room that she did not feel welcome in. >> For me, it was I was bullied like mercilessly. I went to like a small church school almost growing up and you know when you go to a small school you only see a few people and those people tend to bully you. So I was bullied pretty badly like growing up in middle school and then I begged my parents to send me to the public school. I was like please send me to the bigger school and eventually they did but then I was the new kid coming from like the weird church school and so I was bullied in high school as well. But looking back, it really it like almost made me ready for the careers that I've had. Like modeling, I could have never if I hadn't had like had that experience. And thankfully, like I give all the credit to my mom. Like had a mom that was like your looks do not define you. Like there will always be somebody prettier. There will always be somebody uglier. There will always be somebody richer, always somebody poor, always somebody more successful, less successful. Like who you are doesn't need to be compared to anyone else. And she really honed in on that when I was little. So, she's kind of the reason that I'm able to uh to withstand the pressure. Now, >> when it came to Haley's parents, Haley has stated that her parents always pictured her going into medicine, and for a long time, that's exactly what she was doing. Haiti went to St. Cloud State University in Minnesota and absolutely smashed it. She graduated summer Claude with a perfect 4.0 GPA, which honestly is perfect GPA. She earned a bachelor's of science in biomedical sciences and psychology and she did a minor in chemistry. She was so deep into it. She wasn't just coasting through classes either. She worked in an immunology lab. She published research that actually did winner awards and she fully leaned into that science girl identity. This girl was a full-on nerd. On paper, she looked like someone who was absolutely headed to medical school. And that was the plan. She was studying. She was preparing, she was building towards that next step and then life shifted. She got married young and her husband was a professional athlete. His career meant constant moving, different cities, different teams, different schedules and medical school was not something that you can just pick up and relocate every season. It demands you to be stable. So she had to make a choice. Chase the medical path that she had worked towards for years or adapt to the life that she had just committed to. She chose to put medical school on hold. At the time, it probably felt temporary, but that pause ended up changing everything. And that decision made around someone else's career quietly redirected her own. And the version of her life that followed looked nothing like the one that she had been training for in that science lab, which please do not try this at home. Putting your career on hold for someone may not end up being a fairy tale story like that of Haley. But you know what? To each their own. Lol. I get married at 21. Changed my entire life. Um he was a professional athlete. I was just graduating from uh from undergrad and we decided, okay, I'm going to pause my medical career. We're going to focus on his career. So, I was basically like a almost a housewife with jobs on the side. Then I was scouted for modeling. I feel like I've lived like nine lives. And then eventually moved to New York City, had an apartment tour that started my career in social media. And here I sit. I love that so much. >> Story short cuz I feel like most people like don't know your background and like studying biomed like engineering is insane. That's a crazy degree. I did premed and I steered away. I did human biology though because the biomedical engineering like those people I was like I'm scared of those people. If you choose that premed track you are certified absolutely nut. So now let's talk about her pageantry and modeling career. Haiti did not get into pageants because she was chasing fame. At first, it was all about her getting scholarship money. College was expensive and pageantss were one way to help pay for it. Growing up, her dad used to watch Miss USA on TV and she would sit there with him. She would see women from Minnesota on that huge stage. And for a girl from a very small suburb, that felt big and it also felt possible. When a pageant flyer showed up in the mail, she begged her parents to let her enter. They did not just say yes and fund it. They told her that yeah, you could actually enter but you have to raise the entry fee yourself and pay for your own dress. So even stepping into that world just required hustle. Like during my research I watched an interview that she did with the burnout and just listening to her speak about her parents. They were some tough cookie. I'm not even going to lie. >> So another like side quest that I went on. Basically I grew up in like a small town in Minnesota and so pageantss were always on TV. It was like there was even a movie about like the Midwestern girl from Fargo that does a pageant like American Teen Beauty or something. So we we kind of looked up to pageantss like the South does. It's just like not as prevalent. So I grew up watching MissUSA on TV and I remember thinking like those girls are so beautiful and accomplished and like they're everything I want to be. So once I was old enough and got the flyer in the mail, they know exactly the houses to send them to. They're like I know she's going to want to enter this. I begged my parents and of course my parents originally said no because they're like you're not going to enter a beauty pageant like are you crazy until I showed them the scholarship element and then they were like as long as you save up the money you buy the dress you do this all yourself you can enter so I entered I originally did the Miss Teen Minnesota so it was called Miss Minnesota Teen USA and then you went on to Miss Teen USA and then the other one is Miss Minnesota USA you go on to MissUSA and so I originally did the teen pageant won scholarship money for college went back did the miss pageant won scholarship money for college and that's how I ended up paying for my entire college without student loans. So >> that's amazing. I'm not going to lie. >> How much was the scholarship? >> It was basically a full ride. >> They gave you I Well, it depends on which one we're talking about. So Miss Minnesota Teen USA gave scholarship money just in in cash form. Then there was another scholarship. >> How much are these scholarships? >> They're like anywhere from $10 to $50,000. >> That's a lot. >> And then if you win nationals or if you like place at nationals, you get more money as well. She ended up winning Miss Minnesota Team USA in 2010 and went on to compete at Team USA in the Bahamas. She did not place, but just being there was a big deal. Instead of quitting, she came back to pageant during her senior year of college. In 2014, she won Miss Minnesota USA and competed at MissUSA where she made the top 20, which good for her for real. But behind everything, there was pressure. During Miss USA, she said that she became way too focused on her body size. Her joints can do that because you are constantly being judged. You're constantly being compared and measured. She started developing unhealthy eating habits around that time. And what may looked like discipline from the outside was actually something that was much more complicated underneath and it hinted at struggles that would show up again later. After college, Haley was living in Charlotte, North Carolina with her then husband who was playing for the Carolina Panthers. At that point, she was not a model. She did not have an agent. She barely even had a social media presence. She had around 50 followers on Instagram when Spot Illustrated Swimsuit found her. In 2017, the magazine held its first open casting call and she decided to submit. It was not like she had a long modeling resume to lean on. In fact, she had been rejected by every modeling agency that she had reached out to. So, this felt like a long shot. In her interview with the Burnout, she said that her account was even on private. And the day before she put the video up, she had to make her page public because the video was literally the casting call. That's from what I could get. And the next day, she got a DM from the official Sport Illustrated Instagram account, and she was so so happy. Then in 2018, she was named co-winner alongside Camille Cost. And just like that, everything literally changed. I feel like I owe uh Instagram a lot for like starting my career in numerous different ways, but it was during the time that I was married. We had decided I needed to pause my medical career because if I had applied to medical school, I'd probably get in out of state and then, you know, my husband was playing for Minnesota, so it wouldn't make sense to then separate and we were new in our marriage. Um, so I remember seeing on Instagram this like Sports Illustrated swimsuit open casting call and a couple of my friends had texted in the group chat that they were gonna enter and I was like, "Nah, I have like 50 followers. Sure, I'll enter with you guys." You have 50 followers. >> I had like 50 followers and they were all like pageant people. My my Instagram was private I think. I think I turned it public right before this because it had to be public to even enter. And so I just filmed a video of me sitting on a bed being like, "Hey, Sports Illustrated, like I'm getting ready for my one of my friends weddings right now, but I'd like love to shoot for your issue." And I never thought I'd get seen. And then like 2 weeks later, I was in my house in Minnesota and I remember receiving a DM from the official like Sports Illustrated account and I was like, "Is this fake? Like what's going on?" And it had the blue check mark and then that's how I found out that I uh I was in the uh SI swimsuit. >> And then how did that look like once they DM you? like what's the process of Sports Illustrated? >> Well, it was the first year that they ever did it. So, this was all new for them as well. Sports Illustrated has never prior to 2017 had never held an open casting call before. So, um they they basically just invited me to their casting. They were like, "Hey, you're one of I think it was 30 or 15 finalists that got chosen to go to the casting." >> She has said many times that Sport Illustrated swimsuit truly truly changed her life and you know what it did. She made her rookie debut in the 2019 issue and she went on to shoot with them for four years in a row. Kenya in 2019, Scrop Island in the British Virgin Islands in 2020, Hollywood, Florida in 2021. So, from the outside, it looked like a dream. You know, exotic locations, major publication, um, national attention. Literally, she was getting all of it. But the reality behind the scene was not as shiny. Modeling hit her mental health so hard. The body image issues that first showed up during the pageant just came back stronger. She started obsessively counting calories, started over exercising. She constantly started comparing herself to other women, especially that ultra lean Victoria Secret Angel look that her body just was not built for. When your job is to stand next to other women in swimwear and be photographed from every angle, comparison becomes almost automatic. Eventually, it stopped feeling empowering and started feeling draining. She has described modeling as a place where the real bullying began, which says a lot considering what she went through in school. The industry standards, the comments, the constant pressure to look a certain way just created an environment that felt more toxic than supportive. Between imposter syndrome, disordered eating, and her mental health spiraling, she made a decision to walk away from fashion modeling. From the outside, it probably looked crazy to just leave something that so many people dream about. But for her, it was not glamorous anymore. It was very exhausting and she chose herself over the image. Then little did she know that soon her life was going to change for the better. But before we speak about how her life changed for the better, let's speak about her marriage to Khal because this is where we'll speak about her marriage to Matt Khal. Haley started dating NFL offensive tackle Matt Khalil right after the Minnesota Vikings picked him fourth overall in the draft. At the time he was this young highprofile rookie and she was still in college. They got married in July 2015 in Kawaii Hawaii. I tried pronouncing this like in Kawaii Hawaii. And she had a very big beautiful ceremony and even renewed their vows the next year. They did not have kids and for the most part they kept their relationship pretty private. Matt played in the NFL from 2012 to 2019, spending times with the Vikings, the Carolina Panthers, and the Houston Texans, and he even made the Pro Bowl as a rookie, which according to my research is not a small thing. While he was with the Panthers, he and his brother ended up playing on the same offensive line, which had not happened in the league for over decades. So, from the outside, it looked like this solid, successful couple. Football career was thriving. She was rising in modeling and the whole image looked very picture perfect. Then in May 2022, Haley filed for divorce and the paperwork just said that they had irrecon irreconcilable differences and they had already been separated since January of that year. So for a long time that was all the public knew. She spoke respectfully about him. She called him a good person. She said that he made her want to be a better person and there was nothing dramatic about their relationship. And all this happened at first. Then everything changed in November 2025 during a Twitch live stream with streamer Marlon Garcia. She said that the biggest factor in their divorce was physical and sexual incompatibility. Specifically, she described Matt's anatomy as being in the extreme end of the spectrum and compared it to stacking Coke cans. She said that intercourse was extremely painful and that throughout their marriage, they tried everything. They tried therapy. They tried doctors. They researched medical procedures. And on top of that, she said that she was also dealing with her own health issues at the time, including endometriosis, ovarian cyst, that uritis, which made things even harder for her. >> Like all good, like >> totally fine. Yeah. I mean, like average, like all the way from like Yeah. But totally fine. Okay. >> No, he was just like two coc stacked on top of each other. Maybe even a third type [ __ ] Yeah. like he has a Okay, wait. I'm going to type in here. >> Yeah, chill chill chill chill. >> This clip went everywhere. Some people praised her for being honest about sexual health and compatibility, especially since women really speak openly about painful intimacy. Others felt that it crossed the line. They said that it was too personal and it was too exposing and unfair to share something that was that intimate about an ex who had not spoken about it publicly. And honestly, I can see both sides here. I am not defending any man, but let's be very real. If a man went online and said that he left a woman because her vagina was too big, the internet would lose its mind. It would be chaos. But at the same time, we barely speak about painful sex. Everyone hypes up big dicks like that is the ultimate price. But nobody really speaks about the reality of discomfort or incompatibility. I myself have ended relationships with two men because their size did not work for me. It was genuinely too much, especially the second one. like he kept asking me to try and adjust but thing is I simply could not like my friends didn't know the full story I know some people love 10 in good for them that just is not in my ministry I am very grateful to be on the other side now cuz now like I'm with my true people I'm very qu so this feels like a lot more peace than thinking about the size of a man's dick inside of me but anyways in January 2026 Matt filed a lawsuit against her for invasion of privacy and unjust enrichment, asking for damages of over $75,000 and also a jury trial. According to his filing, her comments damaged his attempt to live privately after retiring, which led to disturbing messages towards his current wife and forced his family to deal with ongoing public discussion of something that was deeply personal. I actually do understand his perspective because it was a private situation. They divorced and by her own account, it was amicable. He cosigned on her house, which we'll get to later on, and he has since remarried and had a child. Life clearly moved on. Then I went onto his wife's page and people were attacking her. It was not as much, but just a few people. And someone even posted a Coke gift. I think that's what it's called, gift, Jif. And someone else also commented that she must have a big vagina. I'm sorry. What? Like, are we literally serious right now? Women literally give birth and their bodies recover. Like, let's not pretend that we do not understand basic biology just because you want to drag somebody online or because you're dense. And with Haley, I get that she is book smart. Cool. But sometimes I genuinely question her practical judgment. Did she not think that this would spill over onto his wife? Did she not think that people would start harassing a woman who had nothing to do with the original situation? That part feels very obvious. Also, this is not my first time talking about Haley. Remember the let them eat cake moment which we'll speak about later on at the 2023 Metgala girl. There is a pattern of her saying something for effect without thinking through the whole fallout. Haley pushed back and asked the court to dismiss the case. She argued that she was telling a truthful autobiographical story about her own experience and trauma that he was trying to silence her. Girl, she referenced free speech protections and said that she planned to seek legal fees for having to defend herself. girl. As of early 2026, the case is still ongoing and Matt has since moved on. He married a model. Her name is K. Lani Asmus in Las Vegas in April 2024 and they welcomed their first child in August 2024. So, while this marriage is over, the fallout from it is very much still playing out in public. Now, let's talk about the rise to social media fame. After the divorce, Haley was in a very weird in between space. Modeling was basically over. She was still living in the New York City apartment that she had shared with Matt, but he had moved out and the rent was not something that she could comfortably carry alone. She was about 2 weeks away from having to pack up and leave. Then Tik Tok creator Caleb, is it Caleb? Caleb Simpson walked into her apartment with a camera. He featured her place in one of his street style apartment tour videos and it blew up almost instantly. We're talking about around 25 million views within hours. Suddenly millions of people were clicking onto her page, zooming in on her furniture, her decor, her lifestyle. And the comments, of course, they were going to be very brutal because people were like, "What kind of man pays for this? There is no way she affords this on her own." And that was the tone. The assumption was that a woman living in nice Manhattan apartment must be bankrolled by some mystery man. Like, yo, shaking my [ __ ] head. >> Was almost super random, right? Like, I have dreamed of making comedy videos, being a stand-up comedian. And that was literally the dream when I was little, but my parents were like, "Smash that dream, put it in the closet, never bring it back out." Uh, so I never thought it was possible until Caleb Simpson toured my apartment. And then that's when I saw I think it was like in the first 5 hours there was 55 million views. And I had never ever seen numbers like that. And I could just like feel people going and like almost stalking my page. And so that was the moment that I was like, "This is my time. Like if I want to make shorts, comedy shorts, like now is the time to post." So that's when I started posting five videos a day every day on every platform. And so for me the transition was random but very fast. Like I'm very grateful that uh my following happened quickly. Like I feel like it was just like right place, right time. Truly, I think there are so many people that work insanely hard in this. There are so many people that are 10 times funnier than me, but sometimes it's just like right place, right time, right moment in the algorithm. I I really don't even know. Instead of spiraling, she did something smart. She turned the joke into a story line. She created the Bologonia Boyfriend series, which is this brunning comedic beat about her imaginary ultra rich partner funding her fabulous life. It was sarcastic. It was self-aware. It was basically saying, "If you're going to write the narrative for me, fine. I would make it ridiculous." And when I was watching this her series, it was mostly about like a man like his wife and all of that. I'm going to put some of it here. Like the man controlling his wife, making his wife like a stay at home wife. and like she was doing like a day in my life and just being sarcastic about like the wounds she was getting and saying basically I'm going to put it for you guys to like catch the vibe of the whole Billonia series if you've not seen it and the series it went viral and and the same hate comments that were meant to drag her just ended up wheeling her growth once she saw the momentum she went all in before going all in Haiti said that after she blew up from Calb's video it felt like the right place right time and she was truly grateful for the opportunity because she called her ex-husband at that time and asked him to go sign the lease. He agreed. She had her own savings from modeling and she also told her mom that she wanted to stay there. So her mom gave her money from her own savings too but made it clear that this was not a casual decision. She basically said if you're unsure you can come home but if you're going to do this be very sure. So on paper she had support financially she had her own money. Her ex-husband helped her co-signing the lease but he did not help her financially. She literally stressed that. But she said her ex-husband helped her co- signing the list. Her mom helped with conditions and it was not reckless in the sense of zero planning. >> So for me, I was actually at a big transition period in my life. I had two weeks left on an apartment that I could not afford. It was one that my ex-husband and I got together. My ex-husband was rich. It was not my money. It was his. Like he earned that money. I think a lot of people sometimes confuse that and it depends on a relationship, right? But I always saw my ex-husband's money as his because he earned it. Like that's with his own body, with his own time. Like that man worked harder than anyone. He'd wake up at 4 in the morning, go in like bruises all over his body. Like I lived in a nice apartment, but it was because of him. Like it was his hard work. Um, and he was responsible for that. And I'm so grateful that like he set me up in a place that um I could be in a beautiful place that I literally couldn't afford. And so I had two weeks left on this apartment and I went viral. And I was like, "Oh my gosh, I just went viral for the one thing that I literally can't afford." Like, the only thing people know about me is this apartment and I just dropped my modeling agency because I was going through almost a mental health crisis. Like, I was slipping back into the ED thoughts. And I think as women, we all know that we've almost all been there. And I was like, I need to get out of this or this is going to be bad. And so, I I basically just let go of my modeling agency. They walked away from it, too, cuz I wasn't working that much anyways at this point. And I was ready to move home. I was like I was planning my my move home back into medicine. I was budgeting. I was calling my mom. I was like, "Okay, do I move home with you?" Like, "Do I find a place? What do I do?" And so then when I went viral for that apartment, I was like, "Oh my god, how do I get this apartment back?" But do I have enough money to get this apartment back? And like, what do I do? And so I remember long calls on the phone with my ex-husband who was eventually kind enough to co-sign. He he didn't put money. He was like, "This is you. This is you. if you fail, this is on you. Um, but he was kind enough to cosign. And then I remember the calls with my mom being like, okay, this is the money I have in savings. It's enough to release this for one year, but if I don't make this happen, I will be in a bad financial position. And I just remember her being like, you have to bet on yourself. If you think you can, do it. If you don't think you can, don't do it. But whatever you do, be confident in that decision. And eventually I I resigned the lease and it was off to the races. I was like, I have to post these videos because I really want to make this happen. Like this is such a big dream of mine and it's also such a competitive place and it's so yeah, I uh I started posting and then um I resigned the lease with the uh last bit of money that I had in my account that I had saved up from modeling and um I took that financial risk and I'm really really happy that it paid off. Haley has said that she committed to posting five videos a day across platforms for a year and a half. She said that she only took two days off in that entire stretch and it was the same discipline that she had in school but this was just redirected towards social media and instead of chasing like a 4.0 GPA, she was chasing views. She studied the algorithm like it was a science project. She studed what angle works, where should the text sit on the screen, which fonts holds attention, what sounds are trending, what makes someone just stay past the first 3 seconds. She broke it down analytically and treated creativity like data. Basically, the growth that Haley had was so wild because she gained 30 million followers in under a year. YouTube Shorts became her first big money breakthrough, bringing in around $50,000 a month in ad revenue at one point. By 2025, Forbes valued her creator business at over $6 million and named her a top creator. So, she was also included in the first ever Time 100 creators list in July 2025, which spotlighted the 100 most influential digital creators worldwide. As of late 2025, she has around 15.3 million followers on Tik Tok, 9.2 million on Instagram, and a huge presence on YouTube. And she did not completely abandon her science roots either. that she launched the Nerd Head, which is a community that encourages women to pursue STEM while also pursuing body positivity. It's kind of like a full circle. The nerdy kid who loved math, the girl who struggled with body image and the woman who learned how to survive public criticism all rolled into brand. The apartment tour that was supposed to embarrass her just ended up being the moment that everything shifted. Now, let's speak about her major controversy. In May 2024, Haiti was at the Met Gala, but not as one of the handpicked guests. She was there working as a pre-show host for E News. Still, it was the Met. Everyone was watching. She posted a Tik Tok in Maronette inspired dress, lip syncing to the audio, let them eat cake. >> Let them eat cake. >> A normal day that might have just been another glam moment, but this was not a normal day. There were major pro Palestine protest that was happening outside the Metropolitan Museum of Arts and people were already angry about wealth about celebrity culture and the cost of living. So that audit just hit differently. A lot of people just felt like it came off tonedeaf and rich people were just parting in coutur while the world is literally burning. They're using a phrase linked to a queen accused of ignoring starving cities. Whether that was her intention or not, the optics were rough. The backlash came fast and loud and it fed into the blockout 2024 movement where people started encouraging other people to block celebrities and influencers who were not speaking about humanitarian issues. I have a video on this. I did this video in 2024 so I'm going to link in my description box so you can watch it if you're interested. But anyways, the next day Haiti posted a 9 minutes apology. She explained that she was not invited by Anna Winter and she did not have a ticket to the gala itself. Is it gala or gaya? People some people say gala. Some people say gaya. I'm just going to say Gala cuz that's what I know. But anyways, she said that she went home after hosting to watch the event from her couch. She said that the audio was trending and had been used in over 110,000 other Tik Toks and that she did not even think about the wider context. She also admitted that she was very uneducated about what was happening in Gaza at the time. Some people accepted that, others felt like it was very weak. people felt like the problem was not just the audio, it was the bigger pattern of influencers just floating above real world issues until backlash process a response. So yeah, then there was a dojaka situation. Basically, Haley realized publicly that Djakat had blocked her on Instagram and instead of keeping that to herself, she talked about it and some people actually thought that it was harmless, other felt like it looked like she was staring the pot, especially since she had previously recreated some of Dojacat's outfit for content. People speculated that DOA did not appreciate it. And people argued that announcing the block could actually send her followers towards DOA Cat's page whether she intended to or not. And then came the who the [ __ ] did I date series. Haley posted a Tik Tok series that seemed to expose a former boyfriend named William for abusive behavior. And the story pulled people in. So many people rallied around her. But then fans started noticing inconsistencies. Eventually, it came out that William was not a real ex and the character was fictional and it was just created for skits. And that did not sit well with a lot of people, especially women who had experienced abusive relationship. Some felt I crossed a line, blood, trauma, and friction without making it clear from the start. >> So, I just broke up with my boyfriend, William, and my non-disclosure agreement just expired. So, I guess today Haley Bailey woke up and decided that this week she will be capitalizing off of exploiting women's trauma by taking her I'm dating a billionaire series and finally putting it to rest by turning it into one of those coming forward about who I dated series. And this isn't me encouraging any hate onto Haley Bailey. And I don't even know if the billionaire himself is real or not. But I do know as someone who grew up in the same hometown as she did, Minnitaka, Minnesota, that she's constantly trying to paint as like this small town in Minnesota, which it absolutely was not. It's one of the richest cities in the state. But because Minnesota is the gossip capital of the entire United States, I was very easily able to get the details and figure out that the math of the story she's telling doesn't quite math. And so it's all getting very suspicious. And also, a lot of this is just public information. Like you can Google and find this information very easily. And to be very clear, this is all just my opinion. This is just like what the gossip is. And I think that what she did was she saw that these like women coming forward sharing their stories of what had happened to them were trending. Everyone was on their side, right? They built this big platform. And it was a really good moment of like girlhood and just like loving Brook Scoffield and people like that. So she probably saw that and thought, "Oh, that I want that. Like I'll just turn my billionaire story into that." And just for starters, I don't think it's a coincidence that every video she's released in the series so far has just been hardly over a minute. So, it qualifies for monetization. So, for starters, she says she's been seeing this man for 2 and 1/2 years, which would put you back in January of 2022, but then she says that she actually met him at a Halloween party. So, I'm assuming that would then be Halloween, October of 2021. And she said that she met him on Halloween, but she had just gotten out of a very serious relationship. Again, that would have been October of 2021. The part where I start getting confused is she was actually married. Everyone in our hometown knows that she was married to a football player and they didn't get divorced until May of 2022. So that means that she met this man while she was married. And it's possible they were separated at the time, but 8 months is like a long time to wait to file a divorce. If you scroll down to her feed, you can see around that time she still has all her husband's jerseys and stuff on display in their apartment. But again, it could have been a long separation, which brings me to my second point. She says that during the time she was flying a lot between Minnesota and New York because she was just modeling part-time and she didn't have an apartment yet. But here you can very much so see that around that entire time she was still living in the same large apartment with the classic round window we all know. Which when you have this apartment, I don't know why you'd also still be staying in Airbnbs and renting other apartments. Also, she constantly claimed that this is her billionaire boyfriend's apartment. Then one, why were you living in it before you met him? and two, your husband's stuff was all over it as well. Which brings us to my next point, which in the story she says, which would have been October 2021, I'm assuming Halloween. She says that she just ran to Party City last minute to get like a milkmaid outfit. But then you can see here, this is the same Halloween. And she's dressed as a peasant, very much so not a milkmaid, and very much so not something you could just randomly buy at Party City. This is a pretty decent costume. Like, it's pretty expensive looking and it's very Marie Antuinette. let them eat cake. And another part I find wildly suspicious is she says that the billionaire had her sign an NDA, which since they just broke up, it just ended. And as someone who has lawyers in my family and has personally signed a couple of NDAs, I've never heard of an NDA ending when your relationship with like a company or the this, you know, party ends. NDAs are made for damage control on the way out. So there's usually a contingency that says after this relationships ends, right? after you post this, you do this, then there's like a 3 to 5 year window in which you can't talk about it. Cuz that's the point of NDAs is to keep you quiet until it's no longer relevant. So, I can't imagine there ever being an NDA that ends the second you walk out of something cuz then what was the point of signing the NDA? If he truly is a billionaire, I would assume he has some people on his team writing really decent NDAs. And I want to make it clear, I'm not interested in talking about her past, dragging out anything that's happened, just what she is specifically still talking about today. And I'll even say one thing I've always admired about her and I reason I used to kind of sort of root for her honestly is because she's always known exactly who she is, like even from a young age, she's very much so like a Minnesota pageant girly. like she won Miss Minnesota Teen and then she went on to compete in like Miss Teen USA and she won Miss Minnesota as an adult and went on and placed in like the top 20 or something of MissUSA. Like she was pretty wellknown and she's always been decently popular. She's always been very outwardly confident in herself. Even like in high school, she'd do like the full face of makeup and the hair and the glam and just be absolutely killing it. And I think there is something really impressive in just like having known so long what you're about and like what your brand is. But I am quite disappointed, although not entirely surprised, that she saw what was happening with women online and she thought it would be like a fun thing to turn into a skit and profit off of. >> Jamie Stone later references in her expose, calling it a fake little series exploiting women's drama for clicks and money. By that point, the conversation around Haley had shifted. It was no longer just about funny skits or glowups. It was about responsibility about where comedy ends and where manipulation begins and whether viral moments were worth the cost on one's trust starts to crack. That's why I said it's not enough to be book smart. Are you also emotionally intelligent? Now let's talk about her boyfriend Cal Vera because this is the boyfriend that she make little series exploiting women's drama for clicks and money. By that point the conversation around Haley had shifted. It was no longer just about funny skits or glowups. It was about responsibility about where comedy ends and where manipulation begins and whether viral moments were worth the cost on one's trust starts to crack. That's why I said it's not enough to be book smart. Are you also emotionally intelligent? Now let's talk about her boyfriend Cal Vera because this is the boyfriend that she was literally warned about. Cala is a Brazilian fashion model who started showing up in Haley's content in early 2024 and that's when things got really messy. Not really because of who he was on the surface, but because of what she was warned about and how she handled it before Haley ever like had launched anything. Tik Tok creator Jimmy Jamie Stone, which was dating Cal. So, basically, she's K's ex-girlfriend. So, she reached out to Haley privately. Jamie did not go public at first. She DM'd Haley. She directly tried to warn her. And later in July 2024, Jaime shared the full story in a three-part Tik Tok series. She said that during her 6 months relationship with Kyle that she discovered that he had an STD that he had not told her about. She found medication bottles at his apartment with the name sa was scratched off. One name had not been fully removed and she googled it and she realized what it was for. When she confronted him, she said that he denied it at first, then eventually he admitted it. She had to go to urgent care alone because she was panicking and she was unsure if she had been exposed without her own knowledge. Her results came back clear, but she described the emotional fallout as something that did not just disappear. On top of that, she alleged that he had cheated on her multiple times and had not disclosed his condition to other women either. So, when Jaime first reached out, Haley seemed very receptive. According to Jaime, Haley was freaking out, thanking her, calling her a lifesaver. They exchanged numbers. They sent voice notes back and forth for hours. And Haley reportedly said that K was just a friend who had just been pursuing her and that she would confront him. She positioned herself as someone who believes women, you know, a girl's girl. But then things flipped. Within days, Haley started posting with Cal anyway. And when Jamie questioned it, Haiti initially claimed that one of the videos was old footage, but then more videos actually came out and more. Eventually, Haiti started tagging him and this helped him grow his own platform. When Jaime pressed her again, Haley said that she had a long talk with him and made him sign something, some kind of agreement, and Jaime felt like that was very ridiculous. A piece of paper does not undo a pattern of hiding an STD from partners. It does not protect the next woman. And after that, the communication just dried up. Jaime said that the last message she got was Haley asking if she had any more proof. Jamie sent additional evidence and after that, Haiti went quiet. So Jamie went public because in July 2024, she posted a three-part series laying everything out, the relationship, the STD discovery, the DMs to Haiti, and the fact that Haley just chose to just keep posting him. Anyway, Jamie said that she felt responsible to one other women, especially since Haley was actively increasing his visibility and by extension his access to more women. >> Who the [ __ ] did I date series, a real one, not a fake one? um with a little twist. Okay, so clearly we all saw my last video and a lot of you are wanting me to elaborate on my experience. This has a couple different like levels to it. So I'm going to have to do quite a lot of explaining. And I want to say that the reason that I am doing this is not because I pray on her downfall or anything like that. It's not about that. It is purely because I reached out to her about this very bad man that she's continuing to give a platform to. like single-handedly giving a platform to. He didn't have a platform before she came in the picture. She has been putting him in her videos, helping him make his own Tik Toks, helping him get millions of views on his videos. And this man is a danger to society. Let me rephrase that. He's a danger to women. Okay, lots of women, girls, young girls. Okay, we're going to get into the backstory first of who this man is, and then I'll get into the part that brings in her. Okay, so it's a typical cliche, liar, cheater, manipulator, emotionally abusive. um very toxic relationship. I was an amazing girlfriend to him. I did nothing to deserve the treatment that I got. Not that anyone does something to deserve that. Um and and while those are very important and hold a lot of weight, the reason why I feel compelled to say these things and make a video about it, which I trust me have gone back and forth about a million times and driving the people around me crazy asking their advice about it because I don't want to like stir the pot. I don't want to cause a bunch of drama. I really really don't. But I also feel a responsibility to women to let them know what this man is capable of because even through posting that last video, multiple women have come forward to me with their own stories about him and and it just further proves what I already know to be true just how many women he sleeps with in New York City and doesn't tell them something very important. So this happened six months into us dating. Um, I was over at his apartment and I was convinced that he was cheating on me again because he cheated on me a lot and I always caught him talking to girls, looking at girls, being really inappropriate. The list goes on. Um, and I was convinced that he was lying about being out of town on Valentine's Day. We talked earlier on the phone uh, right before Valentine's Day. He said he had to go out of town for a job and I was really upset and crying on the phone and he told me, you know, there's nothing nothing he could do about it. Blah blah blah. Um, he kind of called me out of the blue, too. He was like, "Oh my god, my agent just booked this job for me." And blah blah blah. And I was like, "What? It's [ __ ] Valentine's Day. What the hell?" And so, yeah. So, I was like, "Okay, understanding. Whatever. Go do your thing." But I was noticing some weird things on his story that kind of seemed like he was actually still in town and didn't leave till the next day. And I was asking about it, but he was obviously just like lying to my face. So, I had this hunch, right? And whenever he got back into town, I was over at his place and um I saw a plane ticket on his dresser. He went downstairs to take out the trash and do some other things. I look at the plane ticket and literally he definitely left the next day. He was in town on Valentine's Day. So, I was like, "Oh, okay. This man's [ __ ] cheating on me again, lying to my [ __ ] face, per usual." Like, you know, if you know, you know. It's like the worst situation to be in because not only are they doing these bad things, but they just are never forthcoming about it. So, it's like they just gaslight the [ __ ] out of you and you ask them questions and they just never tell you the truth. Like, I would just rather you tell me the [ __ ] truth. So, because I am super super upset and sad about this. Obviously, I'm thinking my boyfriend's cheating on me again. I'm pretty positive that's what's happening. Um, I start snooping around his apartment to find dirty condoms to try to like prove it because I know he's going to lie to my face and I know I need to have some sort of proof, right? So, I start digging through his trash, which I know is insane, but I'm like, I need to find this proof. Um, and instead of finding dirty condoms, I actually found a bunch of pill bottles with the name of the medication and his name scratch out on all of them. And I was like, "That's [ __ ] weird. Why are you scratching out pill bottles?" So, he actually missed the name of the medication on one of the bottles. So, then I was able to Google it. Um, and I found out what exactly it was for, and it was for a certain thing that you can spread via intimacy. And obviously, he and I had been intimate because we were dating. Um, so yeah, needless to say, my heart sank. I was terrified because now I'm wondering, "Oh my god, not only am I like, oh my god, this man's cheating on me again." already super upset about that. Then I'm like, "Oh my god, this man has this and I have been intimate with him. What the [ __ ] is going on?" So I'm literally like shaking. Okay, he's about to come back upstairs and I'm like, "Fuck, [ __ ] [ __ ] Like, what what am I supposed to do right now?" I'm like, "Do you have this thing?" And he's like, "No." Lies to me again. And I'm like, "Dude, do you know that if I'm sitting here asking you about it and we continue to be intimate that you can literally go to prison because that is illegal?" And then that's whenever he actually breaks down and tells me the truth. So then of course it's a whole Saab story after that and he is now the victim in the scenario. And uh yeah, I have to go to urgent care by myself. I'm crying in the doctor's office because I cannot believe that I have been intimate with someone who I thought [ __ ] cared about me, who didn't give me any opportunity to consent to something like that, didn't let me weigh in on the decision-m and the, you know, safety protocols, and just didn't really give a [ __ ] about me and my safety. And I knew that, and I think that's why it hit so deep is that obviously right before I found this out, I knew he was cheating on me again. So, it's like if I have this thing that is going to change my life, I got it from someone that could give a [ __ ] less about me. And there is nothing more painful than that because you just feel so stupid and so embarrassed and like so much regret. Obviously, over the next few days, it was hell waiting for the results. And thank God I was like clean and got out clean and I'm super grateful for that. And I want to say I do not judge anyone that has this. I understand that one in five people have it. Like I totally get that. Um but I do think if you have it, it is your responsibility to tell people you're going to be intimate with. They have a right to consent to that. That's what I believe. And you know, the women that I've spoke to about this thus far, that have seen my previous video and have told me their stories um believe the same thing. And I can only imagine how many women out there that are have been with him and have no idea what they've been exposed to. This isn't some like good guy that's like looking for his wife. This is a man that consistently exploits, uses, manipulates, and just treats women really, really badly. And I know this because I've talked to them and I have my own experience. So, obviously, this was an extremely traumatic relationship that I have really been trying to work through over the last couple of years. And I've gotten to like a really good place. And I'm in a really healthy relationship now. And I feel like I've done a lot of work to like change the type of men I was going after after all of that. Um, so fast forward, I'm just like sitting in my bed a few weeks ago scrolling through TikTok and then on my [ __ ] for you page I see Haley getting spun around the [ __ ] streets of New York City with him and I'm like, "No [ __ ] way." Of course, knowing what I know, I'm immediately like, "Okay, what the hell do I do right now?" because, you know, regardless of how anyone feels about her, I still felt I needed to protect her from getting that. I don't think anyone deserves that. So, you know, Haley and I actually do sort of know each other. We went on a trip together with this magazine um like a few years ago. It was actually right after Kyle and I broke up, which is so funny. Like the full circle of it all. So, you know, I've met this girl. I've been on a trip with her and you know and we never necessarily became friends, but I I just felt like it was my obligation to tell her and warn her because I knew that he wasn't telling her this. I mean, look at my own experience. I was in six months with him and he still didn't tell me. And he still didn't tell me when I had the [ __ ] pill bottle in my hand and said, "Do you have this?" Um, yeah. Obviously, I'm like [ __ ] shaking like this cannot be happening because I'm like I don't know what their situation is because I know her content is always like satired and like a little iffy or whatever. So, um I'm not sure if they're dating or if they're friends or whatever, but I'm like I just got to tell her regardless just in case. So, I DM her and I was like, "Girl, the guy in your recent videos has this. This is how I found out." She replies almost immediately and it's like, "Oh my [ __ ] god, no way." She's freaking out. She can't believe it. I'm telling her more information, you know, other things about him, about who he is as a person and the and the ways that, you know, he was just a really bad guy to me in the relationship just to get the full picture. She's super receptive and she says, you know, I'm a girl's girl. Like, I believe women, I believe you, blah, blah, blah. And I was like, wow, that's so that's so cool. You know, like I'm so happy that she's so open to this and she's not just being defensive. And I said that to her and I thanked her for not being defensive. Then she goes on to just, you know, thank me and like, you know, I never would have known like you saved me, blah blah blah. And uh yeah, she said she's about to confront him. And I was like, "Oh my god." Like, "Oh god." And um I was like, "Okay, well, you know, I'm here. If you need to ask me any questions, like I can confirm anything cuz I'm assuming he's probably about to lie to her a lot." Um okay, so I'm running out of time, so I'll do a part two. Okay, part two. I literally put on a robe because I'm freezing in this house. Um and shaking for other reasons. Uh she confronts him and I don't really like hear from her for like the rest of the night. And then the next morning I wake up to a DM from her and she's like, "Hey, here's my number by the way. Text me." I'm like, "Oh, okay." So I text her and she I'm like, "Hey girl, what's up?" And so she just starts profusely thanking me. Oh my god, you're a lifesaver. You saved me. Thank you so much. You really helped me dodge a bullet. Meanwhile, let me preface that the whole time that I was telling her this information via DM um initially that she kept saying that they were just friends and that he was like heavily pursuing her, but she wasn't interested in him. So, she was also very like, "Oh my god, what the fuck?" Because obviously this guy was trying to like date her, pursue her, and not telling her this information. So, she was like, "What the fuck?" Which is totally just like him. Exactly what he would do. She um is texting me and we're we we're going back and forth at this point. I start sending her voice messes. She starts sending me voice memos and we are just like having this like camaraderie like you know men are awful girl power moment and I'm telling her a bunch of like really detailed stories about like what this man did to me and they're horrific. Um along with obviously the story about how I found out and just all the lies, all the manipulation and just like how bad it was. and she's telling me some stories of hers where she's like, you know, starting to see his character coming out um here and there, but wasn't quite sure. And I kind of just like made it official to her that he like was this bad person. Like I spent hours talking to her, okay? And we're going and it's not like I'm talking to myself here, okay? She is talking to me a lot. She is clearly wanting to like vent to someone and go through this with someone and I am happy to do it. You It's been years for me. It's in my past, but you know, I know what it feels like to have this like bomb dropped on you. So, I'm there. I'm talking to her. It's cathartic for me as well. Obviously, it's like sharing our experiences and just like, you know, our past with men and how bad men are and this, this, and that. And she says like she has like one more video left to post with him. She's like, "Oh god, I have one more video left to post with him." I'm like, you know, I get it. I don't really see the need to post a video with him. It was just like some like a little video about them eating snacks together. But if you know it's her work and if she feels like she needs to post it because she worked for it, like then I okay, I get it. And then she was like, "Yeah, but then I'm gonna start making content that's like men are trash and unfollow him. So like my followers are going to know because the thing is like obviously her content was kind of portraying like are they together, are they not?" That's kind of what she does with like her partners or just like friends or whatever. She's just she likes to make content for speculation. Even though that they were friends according to her, um she was still making it questionable online. So, her plan is to make the men's suck content and unfollow him. And then she's like, I'm never speaking to him again. I am so done with him. He's about to go out of town, too, for a week, so like he can't try to grabble his way back in. And I'm just like in full support. I'm like, yes, sister. She's also telling me her own stories about how he she kind of mentioned the possibility of him having something and he lied to her about it, too. I don't know how this came up or, you know, what the deal was. But she told me a very explicit story of how he, you know, lied about it. She knows and I know for a fact that he's still out there lying about it and not being forthcoming about it while trying to get with people, sleep with people. So, it's not like I'm telling her this information and she's just like having to take my word for it. She's also seeing things, you know, comparing it to what I'm telling her and it's all starting to add up for her. She starts posting the men suck content, right? And boys are awful, blah, blah, blah. and like kind of just playing into that whole thing. She posts, she makes one video in particular that, "Oh my gosh, those boys over there are so cute and it's like a bunch of like trash bags on the street and she's like, "Oh, because I like trash." And she sent it to me and she was like, "This one's about her fave." So, it's like, you know, we're going back and forth. She's sending me the videos and and I'm like he heing with her about it and I'm like, "Yes, I am under the impression that she gets it. She knows how much of a danger this man is." And she even said it because when we were getting deeper into it, I was telling her after I found out it came became very obvious that he really really hated himself for it and was deeply insecure for having this and um that I think that's why he consistently sleeps around because he needs constant validation from women. she acknowledged and brought up that it's even worse that he feels that way and knows this and still continues to sleep around with women and not tell them. Um, and that that is someone's body and that's not okay. So, of course, I'm thinking we're on the exact same page about this. I mean, how could I not? A few days goes by, I haven't talked to her, you know? I'm giving her space. I don't want to be all up in her [ __ ] you know? Um, and then he randomly at like [ __ ] 1:00 a.m. in the morning posts a video with him like in the street like twirling around again. And I was like, "What the fuck?" Pops up on my for you page. Heart sinks per usual. And I'm like, "Wait, wait, what?" And I'm like, "Surely it's an old video and she just has nothing to post, so she's just posting it." And so she DMs me on TikTok and she's like, "Don't worry, it's an old video." And I was like, "Okay, I kind of figured." I was like, "I'm going to need a trigger warning from now on if you post him." Haha. And then she's like, "Oh, what do you want me to say?" Jamie, trigger warning in the caption. And I'm like, haha, yeah. Or don't post them. That'd be great. I was like, you know, how are you doing, by the way? And then she's like, oh, you know, I'm doing good. It actually just didn't affect me at all. Like, I don't see, you know, I don't see men that way. I just see them as co-workers. And kind of talked about it like it kind of seemed like her vibe was changing a little bit. And I was like, why does she keep talking like this? Like she kept saying like, oh, men are just co-workers. I'm like, okay. And then I found out later on it's because she was prepping me for all of the content she was about to post with them. So the next day, another video, another video, another video, another video. And I'm like, wait, I'm so confused. Why are you posting him like this? I don't understand. I thought we were in total agreeance that this is a bad man who does not need a platform and does not need more access to women. Like, you know, my stories. You have your own stories. It's not like you're just having to trust me on it and you know, you're still posting him. And then she posts a video where she actually tags him and I'm like, "Oh, so you're tagging him now." So I DM her. I'm like, "Why are you tagging him?" Like, "Please, please, for the love of God, do not prop this man up. He's the last person that needs to be propped up. Listen, at the end of the day, be friends with him if you want to, but why give him a platform if you know these things?" I was like, "Is this like your bestie now? Like, what's going on, girl?" And she's like, "No, like he's not my bestie, but like we do film content together." And you know, I had a really, really, really long talk with him and I made him sign like something contractionally to like make sure that like he would be [ __ ] if he ever did anything. And at that point, I'm just like, "Oh, here we go." Like, I had the long talk with him. H blah blah blah blah. Basically, I saved you and I told you about what he has and you were so thankful to me and said I saved you a million times and you were just so thankful. But now, because this man is at your beck and call for content, and it's good for you to have someone to make all this content with, now you're saved, and you can just friend-zone him. But now he's just out there getting more recognition. More girls are going to be curious about him. He's already getting written about, you know, across different platforms. All of your followers are going to his page, wondering who he is, saying, "Oh my god, I can't wait till you're famous." Blah, blah, blah. And you're doing all that just so you can have someone to film content with. And and what he's you made him sign some sort of contract that's going to do what? He say he can never sleep with someone ever again. It doesn't really make sense to me. I didn't cry about the contract part because I just think it's complete [ __ ] And I think it's messed up that if you know this about him and just want to keep using him for content, like why? You can't find anybody else to use for content. I saved you. But what about all the other women? What about them? if you just keep growing his platform and growing and growing it, like how am I going to get to all these women? How, like, how can I single-handedly do this? I said to her, I was like, you know, you know what he did to me. You know what he's capable of. He's lied to you. He's tried to hide it from you. He's he hid it from me. Like, you know what he can do to women. You cannot give this man a platform. It is now your responsibility as a woman to look out for these other women and not let the same thing happen to them. >> So, obviously, the last thing I said to her was like, you know, it's your responsibility now to make sure this doesn't happen to other women. And she's like 100% 100%. That is why I made him sign something. I just I don't understand the like links that you would go to for all of that. Why would you not just stop making content with him? You literally said you didn't care about this man and then now you suddenly do care about him. Or is it just that it's extremely convenient that he's around to film whatever you need to film? He is not a good guy. I He literally was just DMing a girl that I know and she posted on her close friend story. That's how I even know about it. and she had no idea that we dated previously. I was like, he was trying to like get her to come see him and stay with him in New York City. And she said, "I have a boyfriend." He said, "I don't care." I was like, "I can send you proof if you want." She So, you know, I'm sending her the receipts and sending her what I can send her. And she's like, "Do you have any more proof?" And I'm just like, "For what, dude? What the [ __ ] else do you need to know from me?" I'm like, "What? You want me to like screenshot all of our conversations?" I'm like, I don't really have any other proof besides my truth, what I just explained to you and everything we talked about. And I have a new phone either way. So, I don't have my old text from when we were dating. That was like, you know, a couple of years ago, a few years ago, few years ago. And then she just stopped responding to me. That was the last thing I said to her. And she stopped responding to me. And that was it. That was it. She did not talk to me again. This was a few weeks ago. And she has just been posting him like crazy. Like crazy. It's unbelievable. um and helping him make so much content. I can tell that she's the one behind the content that he's making. She's doing POVs from his account and from her account. So, it's like people are speculating on both accounts. Um it's just really weird. It's really weirdo behavior if you ask me. And it's just really disturbing. So, this all happens. And one video that was extra disturbing to me was the video where she it's nighttime and she's like guys whenever you catch them liking a girl's photo and they're both like cosplaying as guys like getting caught liking photos. So she's like bro like I swear I didn't even like know that was her. I didn't even mean to like it. and then it switches to him and then he's sitting there being and saying his little part of the skit which to me is very real and you know the kind of man he was to me. So, not only do you know these things, not only are you still posting him, but then you're making a video that makes me relive a relationship with him to a degree that's actually insane and like Black Mirror kind of [ __ ] because I'm seeing with my eyes this man say the same things he used to say and it's a joke and she thinks it's [ __ ] funny. And I was just like, "Wow, this is like some next level shit." And I my opinion of her totally changed after that. And it even got worse when then not too long after that she did her fake little series exploiting women's trauma and women coming forward to try to get views and try to get clicks. Strategically making the videos over a minute long each one of them and so that she can get money off of it with her fake story about a fake person that she made up for skits. not a real relationship. It's all complete [ __ ] Maybe she pulled inspiration from other places, but there's plenty of videos finding all the holes in her story that just don't make any freaking sense. So, when I saw her making a mockery out of women and their trauma and you know, the Rhys Tissa, Brooks Scoffield coming forward, which I was so just like, yes. When they made their videos, I [ __ ] love Brooke. I love the Reese Tisa series. I was so excited for them to be able to like share their stories and be at a time in society where women can share their stories and they are believed and people band together and say that person is bad and like let's get them out of here because like that's not how things used to be and we all know that the me too movement started that wave. So to see that happening in society and seeing girls really come together is a really [ __ ] special thing. And for you to sit here, hey Lee, and make videos mocking that, I don't [ __ ] care if it's a joke or a skit to you. It's not funny. And you can't make a joke about that. And on top of that, the way that I just told you all of my traumas a couple of weeks prior to that video and then you just did all of that to me and you're double down on posting him. Friend-zoning a guy and using him for content. that is a danger to women and you don't [ __ ] care. And then you're making videos like this mocking women coming forward. It's just a joke. No, the [ __ ] it's not. People are like, "Why are you coming out about it now?" Like, I've heard I've had people be like, "Oh, you just want attention." I I promise you, I didn't want to [ __ ] tell the story. I went to her. I went to her and I tried. But at this point, if she's going to keep posting him, then I'm I if you're not going to tell them, then I [ __ ] will. That's how I feel about her. That's how I feel about Kyle. Uh, sorry. for the white line girls. I told him I told him that I'm going to tell the women that I see him with and I think he thought I was joking. I think I think they thought I wouldn't [ __ ] do [ __ ] And you know what? I didn't want to because I was scared and I didn't want to come forward about it and it was frightening. Uh I was afraid to get hate. I mean last night I didn't go to sleep until 4:00 a.m. I had so much anxiety about posting the first video. I, you know, didn't eat today until like 4 PM. Like, I this just isn't easy for me and I don't enjoy it. It's not something I wanted to do. I don't [ __ ] want clout off of it. I don't care if someone follows me for it or not. I just want to get the story out in front of people. So, number one, people know who she truly is, aside from her little skits and things like that. Real true stories, one-on-one personal stories, because they matter. And number two, I want people to know what kind of man he is and what he's capable of doing because she is giving him a platform day by day. And I'm sick of it. I'm sick of it. And I tried to make this I tried to keep it off the internet. I really did. And I'm not going to sit here and keep I blocked them, okay? I I blocked her um a couple weeks ago because I couldn't stand seeing the content anymore. And I felt like they both did me dirty at that point. And I felt betrayed by her as a woman. And that's just such a terrible feeling. And so I blocked her. I was like, you know what? He won. He won. I can't do anything. I'm powerless in this situation. I have to let it go. That is how I felt. And then I had to move. I was packing up my whole place. I had to move here. Unpack my whole place. So much things to do. And then she makes her series. And then I'm like, you know what? I am going to tell my story. And that is where we are now. I think it's all just very strange. I don't know what the [ __ ] this contract is about. I don't know why she continues to post him. I don't know why she can't just find someone else to use for her content. I don't know why she views things this way. I I don't get it. I don't get it. But how could I? I'm nothing like her. I'll never understand. And I'm nothing like him and I'll never understand them. And maybe at the end of the day, they actually might just be a perfect match of friends together because they both just don't give a [ __ ] about women. I hope that um any women that see this see this as a sign and a lesson to watch out for these men and make sure that you are safe and try not to sleep around and trust these men because they cannot be trusted. Um and just to to be careful and to watch your back. I really hope this resonates and and you know I really appreciate the support of me telling my story. This is something that I've always kind of wanted to tell, but I was always scared to. And I feel like I've been kind of pushed to the point where I kind of have to talk about it. Um, again, I'm not expecting anything from this. And if you know, just the support, even just if you're thinking about the support, you don't have to comment, anything like that. I appreciate all of it. I just I just can't believe this girl still has the platform. And I can't believe that I was naive enough to think that she was being a girl's girl because that is just like so far from the truth. Uh, I hope that she is going to stop posting him now, but maybe she won't. So, yeah, that's it. >> One video in particular rubbed people the wrong way because Haley and Cal posted a skit about catching a boyfriend liking another girl's photos while Cal was playing the gaslighting boyfriend. For Jamie, this felt almost like watching her own experience turned into a joke. The backlash towards Haley was heavy. People accused her of knowingly platforming someone with serious allegations attached to him. People also accuse her of caring more about content and engagement than the safety of women. And people also accused her of public performing solidarity then quietly stepping away once it was very convenient. At that point the criticism was not just about bad judgment. It was about whether she believed women only when it suited her own narrative. Now that this is out there, I can say yes, she is currently on a cruise with Kyle only deleted her off her page publicly, but still is very much supporting this man privately and is literally on a cruise with him and brought him to an influencer cruise knowing the kind of person she he is. And she's been posting to YouTube like literally every day telling her YouTube audience that she's so sad and struggling with friends and family. I know she was just getting ready for a cruise. And I will just be very limited in what I say here, but just a lot is coming out behind the scenes about both of these two, about Kyle and Haley. Just point blank period. They are monstrous people who do not need to be on the internet. They do not need to have a platform. And Haley needs to be deplatformed. And I I just Yeah. Now, let's speak about the relationship and breakup. Despite all the noise, Haiti did not back away from Kyle. She made him official. He was on her page, in her skates, at events. They showed up together at Gotham TV Awards and the Time 100 Creators launch party in 2025. He met her dad. He was fully integrated into the brand. And if you were a casual follower, you would think none of the early warnings ever happened. Then on August 12, 2025, she posted a YouTube shot confirming that they had broken up. The tone was calm. It was like almost overly gracious. She said that she was single but her ex was lovely, incredible, amazing, kind, and that she had nothing bad to say about him. She framed it as a simple compatibility issue that there was no drama. There was nothing to expose that they were just being very mature about it. I'm not going to lie, that threw people because this was the same relationship that came with very specific, very serious allegations before it even started. So hearing her wrap it up in this very neat bow just felt it felt off, especially when you remember how dismissive she had been towards the warnings in the first place. Then in December 2025, she posted a 4-minute video listing everything that her ex did while she stayed. And this is where the tone shifted. She talked about lying, cheating, manipulation, gaslighting, promises that never meant anything. She described ignoring red flags and convincing herself that it would get better. She admitted that she stayed when she should have walked away. The energy was reflective, almost embarrassing. Like, it did not sound like the glowing breakup statement from August 2025. But let's watch the video cuz let's watch it together. I've watched the video before. So, let's watch the video together. >> But because I can't tell you, >> no, I'm not watching. Sorry. I'm going to put it cuz I've watched it like so many times. Um, I'm going to put it after. I just landed somewhere for a super secret shoot, but because I can't tell you that yet, let's do an edition of the things my ex-boyfriend Did and I still stayed. Yes, I'm aware some of these are very foul and I should have seen it coming. But, you know, when you're in love, you're you're dumb. Let us begin. After about a year of dating, I asked him what my middle name was and he didn't know. He didn't even have a guess. During the first six months that we were dating, he secretly talked to a woman, FaceTimes, text messages, hangouts, and I knew nothing about it until I saw it all in his phone in the deleted. When I saw that a particular girl's text messages were under hide alert, he continued to tell me that he must have fallen on his phone and that's why the alerts were hidden. This man was literally on his hands and knees begging me, looking me in the eyes, crying, telling me that that's what happened. When he met my parents for the first time, he drank a whole bottle of whiskey that day. And when I questioned him about it, he said that I shouldn't be able to control what he drinks and that he is an adult. He would follow so many girls on Instagram and like so many girls photos that I had to download a tracker for the things that he liked just to check if he was lying to me about them. And he was always lying to me about them. That should have been my sign. I should have just Whenever we would film a video together, he would make sure to make my life a living hell unless I tagged him. And even when I did tag him, he asked me to pay him to be in my videos, which like you're my boyfriend. you should want to be in my videos. I He would also get mad at me if I wouldn't help him edit and film his own videos, even if I didn't have time. Half the time I would just edit them for him. I paid for everything. Everything. For his birthday, I paid off all of his credit cards. And then he still asked me for more money. My first dog ever's name was Pooh Bear. She literally changed the course of my entire life. And about a year and a half into dating, I asked him what gender Pooh Bear was. And he didn't know. He literally had no idea. Her ashes are on my bedside table. He would ask me to pay for Ubers so that he could go from his house to my house. This is actually starting to get embarrassing. I We were at a work event together and he flirted with another girl in front of me at the bar for 10 minutes. Didn't turn around once to look at me, not even once. And then when I called him out about it, he screamed at me in front of everyone at the bar and told me that I was crazy. He turned off his iCloud updates just so all of the things that he was doing in his phone wouldn't also be found on iCloud. He wanted to come on every work trip with me, so when we'd finally book tickets and set everything up in his name, he'd randomly bail. He'd say he had to focus on work like a day before the trip and I'd have to scramble to change everything. And he'd never apologize for that either. When I had surgery and couldn't even stand up on my own, he told me that it was too late to come over to help me. It was 9:30 and he was at his friend's house drinking. I sent him a voice note of me balling and begging him to come over and he ignored me the entire night. He had a thing for ignoring me whenever I was in any state that wasn't happy. I spent so many nights balling my eyes out calling him and he wouldn't answer a single call. And then the next day he would text me that he loved me like nothing happened. It was so I I don't even know how you do that to a person. I was going through something really serious with my personal life and I told him about it and he never asked about it again. Never checked in, never asked how I was. On my birthday, he refused to come over and then ignored me. I found thousands of videos of him, you know, with other women in his phone. Videos from many years. videos that I don't even know if those women knew were taken. I always asked if he could control his drinking around certain friends and family members. That never happened. He lied about how many women he's been with. He lied about when his previous relationships ended. He lied about pretty much everything. And the one that everyone already knows. He came over to my house an hour after inviting another girl over to his house and then lied to me and told me he wasn't talking to anybody else. Bring on the era of desentering men because I'm never letting that happen to me ever again. But hey, when you love someone, it's very, very easy for them to manipulate you. And it's very easy for them to paint this picture that isn't true. And I'm somebody that wanted to believe him because I was madly in love with the person I thought he was. But the person he is, I never would have loved that person, which is why he tried to hide it. >> Oh, thank God I'm finally free. Oh my god. >> But anyways, the energy was reflective. It was almost embarrassing. Like, it did not sound like the glowing breakup statement from 2026. I know this is not part of it, but like literally when I was watching the video, like her lip filler was just so painful to watch. Like girl, like it was just it was so painful. Like just having to like look at her lips as she was talking. I'm like, "Girl, I think you should get like a different type of lip filler. Maybe the one that lifts your lip that looks more natural." That looked so painful and it just looked there like stiff like I was just watching. I was like girl like that's I'm like I don't know if I want to watch it again cuz yeah like I maybe she's not using lip filler but she's definitely using lip filler. I'm not even going to lie. I'm just going to put it for you guys to watch because yeah her lip filler looked so painful. Like it just looked there. But anyways, in January 2026, she went on the not skinny but not fat podcast and then she revealed that she had been in a domestically abusive relationship in the past. She clarified that it was not Matt Khalil but another boyfriend and she described emotional abuse, infidelity and said that one former partner had been physically abusive. She even said that the first episode of Belia Boyfriend where she wore a cast on her wrist was inspired by that experience. Now, here's where I stepped in and did my own digging because I did not just see people speculating. I just literally like went down to her Tik Tok myself and just started scrolling. I looked at timelines. I looked at captions. I looked at dates. And in November 2022, she posted a video titled things my ex did while cheating on me. And in that video, she described a boyfriend who drove 8 hours to see her every weekend, who sent roses with handwritten poems every Sunday, who respected her choice to wait to have sex until marriage, who had no password to his phones, but still cheated on her. So, on the surface, that sounds like a dream, but the title made it clear that there was betrayal underneath all of this. So he lined up the timeline with the billionaire boyfriend timeline that started in 2022. The abusive relationship she referenced would have happened before Kyle and after Matt since he came into the picture in 2024. So I am just not guessing. I'm looking at her own content history and connecting the dots that are publicly available. So we don't know who this person is. She admitted that she has a poor judge of character in relationships, that she's overly trusting, that she believes people would never lie to her. And honestly, when you look at the pattern, you can see the tension. She is strategic and disciplined in business and in studies, but analytically, she's also strategic with her content. But when it comes to romantic partners, it just feels like she leads with hope over evidence. So, I'm going to say like I think she's like just my own just my own thinking. And I think that she's literally male centered. Unless if someone warned you about like someone that you were with. But anyways, conclusion. If there is a lesson in all of this, it is not really about fame. It's not really about Haley. It is about something that is a lot more relatable and honestly a little uncomfortable. It's about how easy it is to confuse being confident with actually having good judgment. You can be successful. You can be disciplined. You can know how to start a business. You can read contracts. You can understand trends. You can grow a following from nothing. You can be sharp. You can be focused. You can be 10 steps ahead at work. And you can still completely miss what is happening in front of you in your own personal life because love does not follow logic. You can look at red flag and convince yourself that oh my god, it's not that serious. You can hear warning and tell yourself that the person is just bitter. You can believe that this time is different, that you are different, that they are different with you. You can talk yourself into staying because you want the relationship to succeed. so badly. Sometimes wanting it to work clouds your thinking more than not knowing any better would. Being smart does not protect you from being hurt. Being capable does not literally mean that you cannot be manipulated. In fact, sometimes being capable makes you think that you can handle it, that you can literally fix it, that you can manage the situation, that you are in control when you are literally not. Then add a public platform into the mix. When you are private, your mistakes mostly affect you. But when you are in public, your choices reach other people. Who you stand next to matters. Who you defend also matters. If someone warns you about harm and you choose to ignore it, the decision does not just stay between you and that person. It sends a message whether you intend it to or not. This is not about expecting perfection. It's about understanding responsibility. The bigger your platform, the louder your choices are. At the same time, growth is messy. No one wakes up suddenly wise and healed. Sometimes you only recognize a pattern after you have repeated it like a few times. Sometimes you look back at your own old videos and realize that you were defending things that you should have literally walked away from. Sometimes the lesson only clicks after the damage is done. And here's the most human part of it all. Most of us have stayed in something longer than we should. Most of us have believed in the version of someone we hoped that they were instead of the version they constantly showed us. Most of us have ignored our guts because the dream just felt better than the truth. The difference is that most people do not do it with millions of people watching. Most people get to make those mistakes quietly. They get to learn in private. They get to heal without strangers dissecting every decision. When you do it online, everything is amplified. every blind spot, every contradiction, every lesson, it literally becomes content. It becomes debate. So the real takeaway is not that she is uniquely flawed or uniquely strong. It is that being powerful in one part of your life does not automatically make you wise in every other part of your life. You can literally be brilliant at business and still be so confused in love. You can be confident on camera and still very unsure behind closed doors. And yeah, that's literally all I have to say. This is not just her story. This is a very human one and I hope that yeah, we could get what we could from this whole situation. But guys, that brings us to the end of this video. Thank you guys so much if you watched it to the end. I really do appreciate you staying to the end. Sorry if I look a bit gloomy because my light ain't working and I'm like, girl, you know, like unexpected money pisses me off. like literally 2 days ago I had to pay for my cat's automatic feeder because the one that I got him is malfunctioning and that's the third time I've gotten it and I was like you know what it's quite affordable I got it for like £36 and I've got it like three times. So if you add that that's literally over £100 in a space of one year. So when it started malfunctioning I had to like order one from Petro which was like around is it £35 or £150? It's £150, but they did promo. So, it's £135. So, I have to like order that literally unpro like unexpectedly. And I'm like, it's very frustrating. I'm not even going to lie. And now my light is not working. But my friend was like, you know, sometimes when you have to spend money unexpectedly, that means big money is coming. And I'm like, I don't want it like that. I don't want to spend money at all. But anyways, guys, thank you guys so much. Um, I really do appreciate you guys for stopping. Please, you guys, please, please check out Kelly's video. I'm going to watch it after this. I know you watched it, but Kelly is such a very sweet, good sweetheart. Like, I really do love her. Please check out her video. I really do appreciate you honestly. Um, check out her video. Watch this video. If you watch the video to the end, put a purple emoji cuz of my lip. Okay, y'all. Yo, are you seen this makeup? And again, remember I said my last video, I'm not going to stop saying it till I'm done. I made my hair myself. Yes, I did that. Okay, but guys, that being said, thank you so so much for watching. I really do appreciate. I have two videos that are coming out soon. One is on Pearl. Um, yeah, Pearl's case is very annoying, but like one is on Pearl and one is on why the Republican women look like that. I just recorded a video yesterday that is about Savannah Stone. Um, that should come out next weekend. It should come out like literally Saturday. And this video should come out Sunday. If it does not come out Sunday, it will come out Monday. I've just been like really burnt out, you know. But thank you guys so much. I really do appreciate each and every one of you and thank you, thank you, thank you. And yeah, till next time. Bye. Was literally warned about. Calvier is a Brazilian fashion model who started showing up in Haley's content in early 2024. And that's when things got really messy. Not really because of who he was on the surface, but because of what she was warned about and how she handled it before Haley ever like had launched anything. Tik Tok creator Jimmy Jamie Stone, which was dating Cal. So, basically, she's K's ex-girlfriend. So, she reached out to Haley privately. Jamie did not go public at first. She DM'd Haley. She directly tried to warn her. And later in July 2024, Jaime shared the full story in a three-part Tik Tok series. She said that during her 6 months relationship with Kyle that she discovered that he had an STD that he had not told her about. She found medication bottles at his apartment with the names were scratched off. One name had not been fully removed and she googled it and she realized what it was for. When she confronted him, she said that he denied it at first, then eventually he admitted it. She had to go to urgent care alone because she was panicking and she was unsure if she had been exposed without her own knowledge. Her results came back clear, but she described the emotional fallout as something that did not just disappear. On top of that, she alleged that he had cheated on her multiple times and had not disclosed his condition to other women either. So, when Jaime first reached out, Haley seemed very receptive. According to Jaime, Haley was freaking out, thanking her, calling her a lifesaver. They exchanged numbers. They sent voice notes back and forth for hours. And Haley reportedly said that K was just a friend who had just been pursuing her and that she would confront him. She positioned herself as someone who believes women, you know, a girl's girl. But then things flipped. Within days, Haley started posting with Cal anyway. And when Jamie questioned it, Haiti initially claimed that one of the videos was old footage, but then more videos actually came out and more. Eventually, Haiti started tagging him and this helped him grow his own platform. When Jaime pressed her again, Haley said that she had a long talk with him and made him sign something, some kind of agreement, and Jaime felt like that was very ridiculous. A piece of paper does not undo a pattern of hiding an STD from partners. It does not protect the next woman. And after that, the communication just dried up. Jaime said that the last message she got was Haley asking if she had any more proof. Jamie sent additional evidence and after that, Haiti went quiet. So Jamie went public because in July 2024, she posted a three-part series laying everything out, the relationship, the STD discovery, the DMs to Haiti, and the fact that Haley just chose to just keep posting him. Anyway, Jamie said that she felt responsible to one other women, especially since Haley was actively increasing his visibility and by extension his access to more women. One video in particular rubbed people the wrong way because Haley and Cal posted a skit about catching a boyfriend liking another girl's photos while Cal was playing the gaslighting boyfriend. For Jamie, this felt almost like watching her own experience turned into a joke. The backlash towards Haley was heavy. People accused her of knowingly platforming someone with serious allegations attached to him. People also accuse her of caring more about content and engagement than the safety of women. And people also accused her of public performing solidarity then quietly stepping away once it was very convenient. At that point the criticism was not just about bad judgment. It was about whether she believed women only when it suited her own narrative. Now let's speak about the relationship and breakup. Despite all the noise, Haiti did not back away from Kyle. She made him official. He was on her page in her skates at events. They showed up together at Gotham TV Awards and the Time 100 Creators launch party in 2025. He met her dad. He was fully integrated into the brand. And if you were a casual follower, you would think none of the early warnings ever happened. Then on August 12, 2025, she posted a YouTube short confirming that they had broken up. The tone was calm. It was like almost overly gracious. So, she said that she was single, but her ex was lovely, incredible, amazing, kind, and that she had nothing bad to say about him. She framed it as a simple compatibility issue that there was no drama. There was nothing to expose that they were just being very mature about it. I'm not going to lie, that threw people because this was the same relationship that came with very specific, very serious allegations before it even started. So hearing her wrap it up in this very neat bow just felt it felt off, especially when you remember how dismissive she had been towards the warnings in the first place. Then in December 2025, she posted a 4-minute video listing everything that her ex did while she stayed. And this is where the tone shifted. She talked about lying, cheating, manipulation, gaslighting, promises that never meant anything. She described ignoring red flags and convincing herself that it would get better. She admitted that she stayed when she should have walked away. The energy was reflective, almost embarrassing. Like, it did not sound like the glowing breakup statement from August 2025. But let's watch the video cuz let's watch it together. I've watched the video before. So, let's watch the video together. >> No, I'm not watching. Sorry. I'm going to put it cuz I've watched it like so many times. Um, I'm going to put it after. But anyways, the energy was reflective. It was almost embarrassing. Like it did not sound like the glowing breakup statement from 2026. I know this is not part of it, but like literally when I was watching the video, like her lip filler was just so painful to watch. Like girl, like it was just it was so painful. Like just just having to like look at her lips as she was talking. I'm like, "Girl, I think you should get like a different type of lip filler. Maybe the one that lifts your lip that looks more natural." That looked so painful and it just looked there like stiff. Like I was just watching. I was like, "Girl, like that's I'm like I don't know if I want to watch it again cuz yeah, like I maybe she's not using lip filler, but she's definitely using lip filler. I'm not even going to lie. I'm just going to put it for you guys to watch because yeah, her lip filler looked so painful. Like it just looked there." But anyways, in January 2026, she went on the not skinny but not fat podcast and then she revealed that she had been in a domestically abusive relationship in the past. She clarified that it was not Matt Khalil but another boyfriend and she described emotional abuse, infidelity and said that one former partner had been physically abusive. She even said that the first episode of Belona Boyfriend where she wore a cast on her wrist was inspired by that experience. Now, here's where I stepped in and did my own digging because I did not just see people speculating. I just literally like went down to her Tik Tok myself and just started scrolling. I looked at timelines. I looked at captions. I looked at dates. And in November 2022, she posted a video titled Things My Ex Did while cheating on me. And in that video, she described a boyfriend who drove eight hours to see her every weekend, who sent roses with handwritten poems every Sunday, who respected her choice to wait to have sex until marriage, who had no password to his phones, but still cheated on her. So, on the surface, that sounds like a dream, but the title made it clear that there was betrayal underneath all of this. So when he lined up the timeline with the billionaire boyfriend timeline that started in 2022, the abusive relationship she referenced would have happened before Kyle and after Matt since he came into the picture in 2024. So I am just not guessing. I'm looking at her own consent history and connecting the dots that are publicly available. So we don't know who this person is. She admitted that she has a poor judge of character in relationships, that she's overly trusting, that she believes people would never lie to her. And honestly, when you look at the pattern, you can see the tension. She is strategic and disciplined in business and in studies, but analytically, she's also strategic with her content. But when it comes to romantic partners, it just feels like she leads with hope over evidence. So, I'm going to say like I think she's like just my own just my own thinking. And I think that she's literally male centered. Unless if someone warned you about like someone that you were with. But anyways, conclusion. If there is a lesson in all of this, it is not really about fame. It's not really about Haley. It is about something that is a lot more relatable and honestly a little uncomfortable. It's about how easy it is to confuse being confident with actually having good judgment. You can be successful. You can be disciplined. You can know how to start a business. You can read contracts. You can understand trends. You can grow a following from nothing. You can be sharp. You can be focused. You can be 10 steps ahead at work. And you can still completely miss what is happening in front of you in your own personal life because love does not follow logic. You can look at red flag and convince yourself that oh my god it's not that serious. You can hear warning and tell yourself that the person is just bitter. You can believe that this time is different that you are different that they are different with you. You can talk yourself into staying because you want the relationship to succeed. so badly. Sometimes wanting it to work clouds your thinking more than not knowing any better would. Being smart does not protect you from being hurt. Being capable does not literally mean that you cannot be manipulated. In fact, sometimes being capable makes you think that you can handle it, that you can literally fix it, that you can manage the situation, that you are in control when you are literally not. Then add a public platform into the mix. When you are private, your mistakes mostly affect you. But when you are in public, your choices reach other people. Who you stand next to matters. Who you defend also matters. If someone warns you about harm and you choose to ignore it, the decision does not just stay between you and that person. It sends a message whether you intend it to or not. This is not about expecting perfection. It's about understanding responsibility. The bigger your platform, the louder your choices are. At the same time, growth is messy. No one wakes up suddenly wise and healed. Sometimes you only recognize a pattern after you have repeated it like a few times. Sometimes you look back at your own old videos and realize that you were defending things that you should have literally walked away from. Sometimes the lesson only clicks after the damage is done. And here's the most human part of it all. Most of us have stayed in something longer than we should. Most of us have believed in the version of someone we hoped that they were instead of the version they constantly showed us. Most of us have ignored our guts because the dream just felt better than the truth. The difference is that most people do not do it with millions of people watching. Most people get to make those mistakes quietly. They get to learn in private. They get to heal without strangers dissecting every decision. When you do it online, everything is amplified. every blind spot, every contradiction, every lesson, it literally becomes content. It becomes debate. So the real takeaway is not that she is uniquely flawed or uniquely strong. It is that being powerful in one part of your life does not automatically make you wise in every other part of your life. You can literally be brilliant at business and still be so confused in love. You can be confident on camera and still very unsure behind closed doors. And yeah, that's literally all I have to say. This is not just her story. This is a very human one and I hope that yeah, we could get what we could from this whole situation. But guys, that brings us to the end of this video. Thank you guys so much if you watched it to the end. I really do appreciate you staying to the end. Sorry if I look a bit gloomy because my light ain't working and I'm like, girl, you know, like unexpected money pisses me off. like literally 2 days ago I had to pay for my cat's automatic feeder because the one that I got him is malfunctioning and that's the third time I've gotten it and I was like you know what it's quite affordable I got it for like £36 and I've got it like three times. So if you add that that's literally over £100 in a space of one year. So when it started malfunctioning I had to like order one from Pet Liro which was like around is it £35 or £150? is £150, but they did promo, so it's £135. So, I have to like order that literally unpro like unexpectedly. And I'm like, it's very frustrating. I'm not even going to lie. And now my light is not working. But my friend was like, you know, sometimes when you have to spend money unexpectedly, that means big money is coming. And I'm like, I don't want like that. I don't want to spend money at all. But anyways, guys, thank you guys so much. Um, I really do appreciate you guys for stopping. Please, you guys, please, please check out Kelly's video. I'm going to watch it after this. I know you watched it, but Kelly is such a very sweet, good sweetheart. Like, I really do love her. Please check out her video. I really do appreciate you honestly. Um, check out her video. Watch this video. If you watch the video to the end, put a purple emoji cuz of my lip. Okay, y'all. Yo, are you seen this makeup? And again, remember I said my last video, I'm not going to stop saying it till I'm done. I made my hair myself. Yes, I did that. Okay, but guys, that being said, thank you so so much for watching. I really do appreciate. I have two videos that are coming out soon. One is on Pearl. Um, yeah, Pearl's case is very annoying, but like one is on Pearl and one is on why the Republican women look like that. I just recorded a video yesterday that is about Savannah Stone. Um, that should come out next weekend. It should come out like literally Saturday. And this video should come out Sunday. If it does not come out Sunday, it will come out Monday. I've just been like really burnt out, you know. But thank you guys so much. I really do appreciate each and every one of you and thank you, thank you, thank you. And yeah, till next time. Bye.

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